Everyone who is in an intimate relationship with a partner wants to have a fun, exciting sex life that doesn’t get boring or repetitive. So why not continue to read this article that gives you 10 ways to spice up your sex life.
1. Neck Kisses
Kissing your partner on the neck is a weakness that no one can say doesn’t turn them on. Neck kisses are the easiest way to stimulate and arouse your partner, to get things started in the bedroom.
2. Explore You and His Fantasies
It is important in the relationship that both partners take an interest in learning and knowing what each individual likes and dislikes. When you are open and not afraid to explore not just your fantasies but also theirs, you create open dialogue.
Exploring different fantasies might be nerve-wracking or uncomfortable to talk about, but think of it as a chance to try new things in the bedroom.
3. Role of Being Dominant and Submissive
It is an exciting, intriguing, fun interaction to do with your partner if you’re into things like this. The role involves having someone being in control and someone being put in a state vulnerability.
4. Sex Toys
Imagine spicing up your sex life by using some sex toys. Buy sex toys that would both stimulate you and your partner.
Sex toys are an amazing way to pleasure your partner, so go out and invest in your sex life.
5. Build Up Anticipation
There are many ways to build up the anticipation that will drive your partner wild. Tease them with kisses, talk dirty to them on the way back to the place, etc.
The anticipation is what kills them initially because they are expecting something that they know is going to be good in the end.
6. Dirty Talk
Like the song by Jason Derulo, “Talk Dirty”, that’s exactly what couples or situationships should start doing because talking dirty to one another will definitely set the tone for the mood. Talk that dirty talk and see how far and well your night will go after.
7. Give a Killer Blowjob
Sis, let me tell you, every guy that you will encounter 9 times out of 10, he likes to get a blowjob. If it isn’t full on sex, as long as they get a killer blowjob they will be all set.
If you give them a nice blowjob, with tricks and all, you will have him in the grips of your hands, lol.
8. Avoid Routine Moves
Nothing is more boring than doing the same sex positions, the same sex routine every single time it comes down to play. When you start to do the same routine, then boredom.
Don’t be boring in the bedroom and you won’t have to worry about your partner losing interest in you sexually.
9. Bottom Lip Sucker
My personal favorite, I absolutely love sucking on my boyfriend’s bottom lip when we are kissing. I can’t tell you why, but I do and it helps even more because he enjoys it.
Sucking the bottom lip, I think is just more convenient and accessible, compared to trying to suck on the top lip, it just would seem awkward.
10. Experiment With Other Parts of His Body
Explore your boyfriends’ body, see what other parts of his body you can get a reaction out of him. I think being able to find out what is pleasurable to him, can be fun and interesting.