10 Hookup Tips You Should Already Know
Everyone could use some hookup tips – but these should be things you already know truthfully. You all know how it goes, it’s a Friday night and you and your friends are getting ready to go out for a night on the town and it’s gonna be lit! And with today’s “Hookup Culture” there is a very high chance you’re going to get laid. Well before your night out on the prowl here are 10 little pieces of advice to get you through your hookups without none of the”extra-ness” that can come along with casual sex and a few hookup tips for a bomb ass hookup.
1. Good Hygiene-Don’t Be That Guy/Girl
This one should be a no brainer but you would be surprised at how many people who don’t shower daily and such. You should have clean clothes and a sexy fragrance to wear, whether you’re male or female.There is nothing better than someone who is looking good and smelling good. You should always want to be unforgettable, just make sure it’s for the right reasons.
2. ALWAYS! Always use protection!
In this day and age hooking up is a bit risky, you don’t want to end up with something Ajax won’t take off. Male or female, everyone should keep condoms on them, no excuses.
3. Be Totally Honest
If all you are looking for is to hook up for the night let that be known beforehand. Also is you are looking for more than one night, make sure you let them know BEFORE things get hot and heavy to avoid a lot of drama and heartache down the line.
4. Don’t Overdo the Drinks
No one wants to wake up with the awful feeling of “what did I do last night?” Male or female, getting someone inebriated to get them in bed is just sleezy. while there is nothing wrong with having a few cocktails to loosen up, just be easy so you don’t end up in a situation you cant take back.
5. Keep Up With Your Clothing
When things start getting a little hot and heavy, male or female, always keep up with your clothing. One way I have achieved this is just simply put my panties in my pants pocket or my purse if I’m wearing a dress or something. you never know if the person you are hooking up with is a panty snatcher or whatever, and those Vicky Secrets don’t come cheap ya know!
6. Always Have Clean Sheets and Room
It is just another part of good hygiene to make sure you have clean sheets before and after. Having a clean room makes you look like someone who has some business about themselves.
7. Be Confident With Everything About You
think know that you are the shit. each one of us is unique and have special qualities about ourselves that makes us who we are. Never belittle yourself or others will pick up on that and more than likely start to just to use you.
8. Don’t Overstay Your Welcome
If staying over at their place, don’t just sit around and wait to be asked to leave. my advice is to wakeup, get yourself together and get on your way. Always be respectful of other peoples schedules, habits etc. when in doubt just ask ahead of time what time you be out of there, it shows that you are a confident instead of a needy, clingy individual.
9. Do Not Overtext After a Hookup
Give it a few days then send the hey Whats up text. if you don’t get a reply just let it go. Seriously, texting over and over will not make some one like you or want to be with you. Just chalk it up to a loss and keep being your fabulous self!
10. Consent is ALWAYS Important.
Let it be known what you want to do and let it be known what your are comfortable with doing ahead of time. If the person says no to a certain thing, then do not, I repeat, DO NOT push the issue or try anyways. there is nothing cute about doing anything to someone out of their comfort zone. As matter of fact it is illegal in most instances.
While I cannot guarantee these tips will save you from all the drama out there, I hope thay will help you be more aware of how to just have fun in college with hooking up and maybe even finding a love or at least a lifetime friend!
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