There are so many ways that you can spice up your sexual life. If I wanted to, I would just tell you all to go and listen to the Call Her Daddy podcast, but I want to give you something a little more personal. Your zodiac can say a lot about you, even what you tend to like in bed. So let’s get into it…
You’re passionate, confident, and most importantly a leader. You like being in control, don’t deny it. So, you need to try bondage. Whether you’re tying up your partner or yourself, the feeling of control, or maybe the lack of it, will definitely spice up things in the bedroom.
Two words: dirty talk. You’re down to earth and deeply sensual so dirty talk is a great way to spice up your sex life. If you’re nervous to start, try sexting your partner first. A dirty message during the day can build up the anticipation for when you finally get together. Then when you get comfortable, bring it out in bed! This will deepen your connection with your partner and lead to better sex, it’s a win-win.
Oh Gemini, you have so much you can do. You’re outgoing, yet sometimes indecisive, which means you’re ready to try anything. Your best bet: sporadic teasers. Whether it’s a dirty message or a photo of you wrapped in a towel, sending a teaser to your partner is a sure-fire way to spice up your sex life, and be the center of attention. If it’s a surprise, even better, your partner won’t know what hit them.
You’re known for being intuitive and caring, you’re ruled by the moon which means your sensitive, sometimes even mystical. You should try sensual massages. Light some candles, play some music, oil it up, and you and your partner can both give each other a sensual massage. Not only is this self-care (who wouldn’t want a massage?), but it’s a way to spice up your sex life in a way that highlights connectivity and compassion.
Leo the lion, you’re a playful, ambitious, and generous soul. You should play a naughty game with your partner. Whether it’s a pair of sex dice, a sex fantasy jar, strip poker, or more, this is a fun way to spice up your sex life with your partner. There are tons of apps and games for couples to play, or better yet, make up your own! There’s definitely no loser when you’re playing these games…
Virgo, you’re known for being hard-working, reliable, and kind. You’re also known to be creative, which is why you and your partner should try writing love notes to each other. Writing love notes not only makes you feel appreciated in your relationship, but it’s a way to connect outside the bedroom. Not to mention, you can always spice up your notes with a little dirty talk if you’re in the mood or complimenting them on something they did the night before. You can hide them throughout the house, in their planner, or wherever they might find it and bring a smile to their face.
Social, clever, and idealistic, you should set up a standing date night with your partner and have sex before you leave for your date. Having sex before you go on your date is a good way to start the night off with intimacy in the air. It’s a way of building intimacy with your partner, and it’s something to look forward to on date night. You’re not coming home too tired or too tipsy and you get to spend the night enjoying each other still running off of the endorphins from your not-so-long-ago tryst. Better yet, you’ll be ready for round two when you get home!
Known for being ambitious, brave and determined, you’re also known for being a little secretive and jealous. You should try watching porn together with your partner. With the twinge of jealousy mixing with your ambition and confidence, this is bound to be an exciting way to spice up your sex life. Getting each other in the mood and sharing what you like by watching porn together will definitely make for an interesting night.
Sagittarius, you’re optimistic, adventurous, and honest, you and your partner should go shopping for sex toys together. Shopping for sex toys can be nerve-wracking at first, but if you go together, you’re bound to find something you want to try out. And you can go home and try it right then and there. Or build up the anticipation waiting for it to come in the mail. Not to mention, since you’re also known for being independent, I’d recommend picking something up for yourself too!
You’re known for being hard-working and practical, oftentimes realistic. But tap into your sensitive side where you also hold many of your ambitions. You should make a sexual bucket list. You know what you want to do, maybe not right now, but you can write it down and start to slowly cross things off your bucket list. Open up the list to your partner and together you can start crossing things off together! If you don’t want to plan, throw all your ideas in a jar and when the time comes, pick one out! It’s a fun way to try new things and spice up your sex life for both you and your partner.
Aquarius, you’re free-spirited and at times eccentric, you’re not into typical romance. You and your partner should have sex anywhere but the bedroom. There are a lot of opportunities that come with this, but I’m sure you and your partner are creative enough to try. Whether it be the couch, the kitchen, the shower, or the dining room table, a change of scenery is a good way to spice up your sex life!
Creative and empathetic, you’re known for being emotional and romantic. You should make a sex playlist. What better way to spice up your sex life than setting the mood? Compile your favorite songs that get you in the mood and play it next time your beau comes over. I guarantee that your brand-new playlist will sound a lot better in the background than the Netflix show you left running, and next time you hear those songs, it will bring back some sweet memories.
There are a lot of ways to spice up your sex life, and I full-heartedly believe that you should try everything that’s on this list, beyond just your own zodiac. Get out of your comfort zone and build intimacy with your partner by trying some of these ideas! Start with your own sign, then branch out!
If you have any other suggestions, along with any questions or comments, drop them below! Stay sexy zodiacs.
I’m from Long Beach, CA and I’m currently a student at Villanova University, pursuing a major in Communications with a double minor in Psychology and Spanish. I started writing articles in the fall of 2019 and fell in love with writing, hopefully, you’ll enjoy my articles just as much as I do!