The Sex Toy Store for many couples can feel completely taboo, or like a last resort, but that should never be the case. Think of going toy shopping as new adventure, filled with an entirely undiscovered world of pleasure, and maybe some pain (if you’re into that). Moreover, many feel as if asking their significant other to go with them to the sex toy store is inappropriate, but that is completely wrong. Here lies a list of all the reasons why going to the sex toy store can be a great date (but don’t make it you’re first one, that might be a little much):
Learning More About Each Other
I don’t know about you all, but for me sex in a relationship is very important, and truthfully I didn’t realize that until I was gifted a relationship with a man that could not make me orgasm, for the actual life of me. With that being said, going to the sex toy store is the perfect way to figure out how to get your partner off (and in the most efficient way). You all will be opened to their kinks and sexual insights that will broaden the scope of sex for you, making it a new discovery for all parties involved.
Trying New Things
Too often do people become attached to the same routine of sex, however that shouldn’t be. The sex store allows people to dibble and dabble into unmarked territory and find out what works for them. Now, everything in the sex toy store may not work for you, but you might find something that works just right.
Strictly Educational Purposes
Perhaps you’re in a similar position as I was (with a partner that can’t get you off), so this trip to they sex toy store will serve as an expedition of self discovery. Find toys that you think will work for you (or both of you), and use them with the goal of achieving orgasm. These toys can either be implemented into your regular sex life or, used to show your partner what you need (technique, pace, pressure or otherwise).
I know going to the sex toy store probably seems like an odd thing to bond over, but hear me out. This is a very open and non-judgmental space, the same way anyone’s relationship should be. Now that’s been said, this feel like the place to admit all the sexual lackluster feelings and the ideas to make it better. You all should feel free and empowered to say what you feel, and this might just bring you closer together.
Just to Make Life Interesting
Day to day life can become too routine and grow to be mundane. So, to keep that from happening life has to get a little spicy from time to time, and the sex toy store is a place that overflows with spice. It will reignite the interest in your sex life, and it would be almost impossible not to want to have sex after leaving the store together. The sex toy store is a place where nasty ideas are born and then hopefully once you leave are perfectly executed.