Sex toys are scary to some people but they’re important for keeping the spark up and alive in relationships. Well maybe not important, but they’re certainly fun and allow for a whole new level of intimacy and vulnerability in a partnership. No need to be intimated by them! Plus, quarantining at home right now, especially if you’re with your significant other, is the perfect time to try something new and to find out what you actually like when it comes to toys and sex. With that being said, here are 10 toys and games to spice up your date nights!
1. A Great Vibrator
Everyone knows a vibrator is the ultimate way for a woman to have the big “O.” If Samantha on Sex and The City taught us anything, it’s how powerful those things can be, no matter the size. While a lot of women likely just use them for self-stimulation, alone, they can be fun and playful to use with your significant other. They even make vibrators that are specifically designed for couples and for dual stimulation. However, I’ll leave a link to a simple and affordable vibrator below that may just help you figure out what kind you really want! But remember, there are so many different types, shapes, sizes of vibrators, that if this one doesn’t work for you, don’t give up hope! Keep looking.
2. The “O-ing” Tower
This product is essentially sexy Jenga, so its guaranteed to be fun. It’s a fun and sexy way to spend a night in quarantine with your SO. The blocks have instructions, like “Hug your partner from behind,” as well as some dirtier ones that promise a night of fun. In my opinion, it’s also just sexy to compete against each other, one on one, in a game. Competition always brings out a sensual tension that provides allure and romance in the right ways. Play this game in quarantine and then grab a toy to try out after, you won’t be able to keep your hands off of each other.
3. SKYN Flavored Condoms
Flavored condoms are a fun yet safe way to spice up your relationship. While not technically a sex “toy” these condoms provide a yummy twist on safe sex. With flavors like Cherry Sunrise and Pina Colada, they’re worth a try and super sexy. And, if those flavors don’t strike you as appetizing, other brands have their own more traditional flavors, like banana or grape. Are there traditional flavors of condoms? I might just be guessing here but they still sound fun.
Handcuffs are simple but sexy and have a variety of uses when it comes to spicing up your date nights. Use them on one another, or handcuff you and him together and just see what happens. I can’t say I’ve ever used these, but they always look fun and sexy in movies. They also come in four colors from black to hot pink!
5. After Dinner Amusements: Truth Or Dare For Couples
This is a safe and cute game to spice up your relationship. Ask each other sexy questions or dare each other to do sexy things based on what card you pick! Get some wine and get deep and down (and dirty?) with one another.
6. Finger Vibrator
This is a nice and discreet vibrator that can be stored anywhere. It simply slides over a finger tip and then buzzes on. It’s a soft silicone material and is 100% water proof, so use it anywhere you please. Whether in a bath or shower or just in a bed, it’s worth trying out.
7. Sex Position Book
The best way to spice things up easily is trying out some new positions. Who needs a sex toy when you have each other and just explore one another’s bodies in new ways! This book is especially fun as it takes on a more modern twist on the classic positions we all know. So, if you’re more of a visual learner this book is a great way to learn and gain more experience.
8. Get A Vibrating Ring For Mutual Pleasure
Vibrating rings are worn by the man but can provide pleasure for both partners. I definitely suggest trying one of these out, even just once, to see what it feels like and to experience something new with each other. The one I’m linking below is a little pricey, but there’s much cheaper one’s on other sites if it’s out of your range.
9. Victoria’s Secret Wicked Cutout Teddy
This isn’t a sex toy, but lingerie is a fun way to spice up your relationship or any date night. Victoria’s Secret has so many sexy options that are comfortable and well-made. Meaning, they won’t immediately tear and they won’t make you itchy from being made of cheap material. Check out this sexy teddy below!
10. 50 Shades Of Grey Set
This sex toy set is inspired by the popular book and movie series 50 Shades Of Grey. It definitely doesn’t seem to be for those who are just beginning their exploration of sex toys, but if you’re a risk taker or like to just go for it, this may be the purchase for you. Especially if you’ve got some major Christian Grey fantasies you really want to explore. I mean come on, we all secretly do.
Sex toys are a great way to spice up a date night or a day date if you’re stuck at home with your significant other right now. Sex doesn’t have to be the same old sex just because you can’t leave the house. Still, remember to always discuss the use of toys and any activity with your partner to find out what you’re both comfortable with and what you aren’t. You never should try something if you don’t feel sure you want to do so. So, have some conversations, figure out your desires, and then get shopping for some toys and games to make quarantining fun and sexy!