Finding love is a difficult task, but sometimes its our own fault that we can’t find love in the first place. We tend to complicate the process with our bad habits or practices that we can be completely unaware of. The point is to figure out these problems and change it, so that we have a better chance at finding love. This is why you can’t find love, based on your zodiac sign.
Aries (March 21 – April 19)
You can’t find love, because you are focused on too many other things. You have the tendency to jump from one thing to another and this is fine when you’re looking for what you’re most passionate about—but not when you’re trying to find love. Love takes time and patience. This is difficult for you to comprehend, but you must learn how to move slowly in order to find the one you love.
Taurus (April 20 – May 20)
You can’t find love, because you are placing expectations on how the person you love should be. The finer things in life draw you, but you have to realize that people aren’t things. You can’t pick and choose which aspects of a person you want. You can’t manipulate them either. When love is found, you have to appreciate everything—even the flaws.
Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
You can’t find love, because you don’t know what it is you want. You have yet to decide what type of person is best suited for you, so you tend to just go out on a limb for anyone who shows interest in you. It’s time you look at yourself and decide the type of person who will suit you he most, appreciate you, help you grow and vice versa.
Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
You can’t find love, because you’re stuck on someone or something else in your past. There was probably a person that broke your heart, or a situation that made you feel love is not worth the effort. You can’t always use your past as insight into the future. There is someone out here that’s going to treat you right and make you believe in love again.
Leo (July 23 – August 22)
You can’t find love, because you’re looking for affection instead. You want to be loved, but forget that you need to give it in return—and not just through buying them dinner or dressing up for them. Love is found through really getting to know someone, having deep conversations and breaking the surface level of affection you tend to cling onto.
Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
You can’t find love, because you think it will get in the way of your plans. Love is messy, that’s true. It can get in the way of your dreams, your career and your life—but the right kind of love will direct you to a better path. The right kind of love makes new plans that are beyond anything you could have imagined while on your own.
Libra (September 23 – October 22)
You can’t find love, because you don’t allow changes to be made in your life. You become afraid to let people in, because it will upset your life as you know it. Maybe you have dated the same type of person for a while and continue to do so, because that’s what you’re familiar with. You need to make changes if you’re not finding love in these peoples. Get out of your comfort zone.
Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)
You can’t find love, because you come off as too intense. You jump right in, hoping for the relationship to turn out the way you have expected it in your head—but people don’t just obey to your laws, they have their own. Give other people some time to get used to your intensity before throwing it all out there. This doesn’t mean you have to change or settle down, just get to really know the other person first before you start making all the decisions.
Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)
You can’t find love, because you are too reckless when searching for it. You act like you don’t care, but then you do. You love this person or maybe that person. You have so many options, because people are drawn to you. Don’t let just anyone come into your life. Make deliberate choices that will lead you to the love you deserve.
Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)
You can’t find love, because you have a hard time letting loose. You need to free yourself from your traditional ways in order to make new ways with a significant other. The love of your life will have different interests, a different upbringing and background—you have to understand that this means making changes to how you do things in order to find them.
Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)
You can’t find love, because often times you come off as too selfish. It’s not a bad thing to be independent and self-assured, but this may turn others away from you. A relationship takes two people and the kind of effort you may not be used to giving. If you want to find love, you have to be willing to do nice things for that other person.
Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
You can’t find love, because you are living in a fantasy. You are constantly talking about the beauty of love and how it should be, but you don’t actually put in the work to find it in real life. It’s nice to live in your own world, but at one point you’re going to have to come out of it and build a relationship with someone in order to actually achieve making that fantasy into reality.