Sex is all about love and intimacy but pleasure is also important for both parties. Pleasing a man is hard to do sometimes but if you follow these simple tips and suggestions you will be able to please your man and give him the orgasm he deserves!
1. The woman on top (Cowboy Style)
To drive your man crazy in the bedroom, this position puts you in control and this is just what your man wants. This position leaves the tempo and speeds up to you, so tease him slowly, speed things up, and slow back down again to increase his climax when you’re ready to give it to him. This sexual position leaves your man with his hands unoccupied so they can roam and he likes the view from under you, so try it with the lights on for extra visual pleasure for him.
2. Missionary Style
This is the typical style most men go to because he maintains control in this sexual position. He can look you in the eyes and your lips can lock into sensual kissing while he takes control. To make things more interesting, move your hips to the temp of his thrusts and this will cause a dramatic climax for him and please you at the same time.
3. Doggie Style Sexual Position
This is most men’s favorite sexual position because of the way it feels for a man. Don’t get me wrong, many women love this sexual position as well but it is more about the depth he can go in this position. In this sexual position, he is in control and is able to call all the shots making him feel like he is on top of the world. Don’t forget to tell him if this position is too much for you because communication can help your sexual experience become better and feel more physically.
4. Backward Cowgirl Style
This sexual position is a reversed variation of the woman on top but it is the best of both worlds for him as the woman’s behind is what the man sees while the woman is in control and able to control the motion and speed on top of him. This sexual position doesn’t leave a lot of room for touching or eye contact, but it is a nice change compared to some of the more traditional, romantic positions.
5. Spooning Sexual Positions
This sexual position is the go-to position when you’re feeling lazy but affectionate. This position is a great pleaser for the man because it gives him an all-access pass to your body and it frees up your hands so you can masturbate while he is inside of you, which is definitely a great way to drive him crazy!
6. The Flatiron Sexual Positions
A strange name for a pleasuring male experience. You will lay down flat on your stomach while your man straddles you. This allows a man to get deeper penetration and is another rear-entry position, so he will absolutely enjoy this! Don’t forget to raise your hips upward towards him, which allows for even further penetration and will drive him wild!
7. The Butterfly Sexual Positions
What a beautiful name for such a hot sexual position. You will lie on the edge of the couch, bed, or wherever you want while he kneels next to it to enter you. Every inch of your body will be on display for his visual pleasure and he will think this sexual position is incredibly sexy no doubt!
8. Kitchen Sexual Position
A change of scenery is just what is needed to spice up things for him. Men are more visual than women, so try the kitchen table or counter for starters and he will be “O” so pleased with this change! If you want more fun, try other places in the house or even public places. Just remember to not get caught!
9. The Waterfall Position
This is a sure way to pleasure your man! This sexual position is very intense for him and with you doing the work, he can relax and enjoy the ride. Have your man lay on his back with his shoulders and head hanging down on the floor and you go to work. The headrush will give him a sensation like no other when he finishes.
10. Oral Sex
A man pleaser since the beginning of time. Most men love oral sex and they enjoy the visual of you taking their manly part into your mouth. To spice this up, try eating a popsicle or crunch on ice while you go down on him. The cold of your mouth and the heat of your mouth at the same time will drive him over the edge in no time. If you feel really spicy try a candy like Pop Rocks and let them pop inside your mouth and around him as you take him into your mouth deeply. This will please him immensely.