There is no rule book on how to have healthy relationships, but using the principles of Law of Attraction might be the secret you’ve been looking for. It is all about yours and your partner’s mindset that can secure a stable, healthy relationship. The basics of Law of Attraction are quite straightforward though harder to put in place. Let’s have a look at some of the Law of Attraction guidelines that will unfold the secret to healthy relationships.
Let’s Start With You
To have a healthy relationship with your partner, it is also very crucial to work on the relationship you have with yourself. Law of Attraction comes hand-in-hand with gratitude and manifestation.
Before taking the plunge, you need to find out what you want from a relationship. Once you have figured that out, you can start manifesting. The core of manifestation is merely putting out into the universe what you want to attract.
Take your time with this. You may think ‘no matter what I do I always attract the wrong guys/girls.’ Instead of doubting the system, start believing that you deserve a decent person to share your life with. And who knows maybe the wrong guys/girls will stop showing up.
You Are What You Think
Now let’s say you’ve attracted a person into your life. The work does not stop just yet. To maintain a healthy relationship and one of the critical rules of the Law of Attraction is managing your thoughts.
At the beginning of your relationship, you might still wear your rose-colored glasses, but later on, when you start realizing not everything is peachy, you will need to keep at the positive mindset.
The more time you spend together, the bigger the expectations and more emotional baggage might put a strain on your relationship. Thus it is easier for the influx of negative emotions and thoughts that will set off the storm of negative feelings towards your partner.
These negative vibrations will be reciprocated and will add fuel to the fire. Try thinking positive at all times. Even when anger and frustration overwhelm your judgment, remember what is true and real. Don’t let your insecurities get the best of you.
It’s A Two-Way Street
It takes two to tango, as one would say. Because there are two people in a relationship unless you are into polyamorous relationships, what you give is what you get.
Like any other person, you want to be heard, understood, supported and loved. Don’t blindly expect this unless you are giving it to your partner. Be as present as you want them to be. Your actions will be rewarded with kindness in return.
The work gets harder when you are doing everything you can for your relationship, putting in the effort and seeking more excitement not to become a boring couple. You need to remember nice things do not necessarily mean you are putting out positive vibrations. You need to make sure you are not acting on emotions of anger and frustration when doing ‘nice’ things for each other. That will simply not attract the positive vibrations you want.
Good Old Conversation
When all the tricks and hacks that come with the Law of Attraction still don’t make your partner present or anything else you’re missing, the good old conversation and a healthy level of communication can save the day.
Where the Law of Attraction comes handy again is in the language you use when talking to your partner. When discussing an issue, it is important not to blame each other that will only create negativity. To resolve a problem, you will need to come to an agreement or a compromise TOGETHER. Hence, the critical word. Use words that strike of togetherness and they will attract joyous emotions over potential parting.