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8 Things You Want Your Guy To Do For You In Bed

So once again, I’m trying to assist us ladies in the cross-referencing of information to ensure that we’re all getting the most out of life; and by life, I mean our sex lives. Are you satisfied? Is your guy doing all that he can for you? If he is, these eight things will be things you’ve experienced. If not, well that’s what the list is for. Take note and tell him what you want him to do for you in bed!

Oral Pleasure

If you manage to find you a guy who’s not afraid to put his face in it, consider yourself lucky. Oral pleasure is a must. Every woman deserves it. If you’re not getting this then you’re missing out and it’s time you let your mate know that it’s gotta be incorporated. This is definitely a thing you want your guy to do for you in bed.

Fingering

Experienced guys will put this to use for sure; during oral or during foreplay, and if they’re really good, during everything else too. It’s like a mood builder. A cherry on top. It’s something you want your guy doing for you, so if he’s not, get on it.

Optional Positions

I’ve gotta say, I can’t picture having a sexual relationship with someone who doesn’t switch it up every now and then. This comes naturally doesn’t it? Iunno. But it’s just another something you should be treated to ladies.

The Best Strokes

Every guy should be giving a girl his best strokes in bed. If he’s being lazy or you’re not feeling it, he could be a possible slacker. Make sure the strokes are firm, hard, passionate, and consistent. If not, definitely communicate what you want him to do for you in bed. Good strokes are not an exception. They are what get the juices flowing.

Keeping The Weight Off

One thing you definitely want a guy to do for you in bed, girls, is keep his weight up. If you’re in a position like missionary, doggy style, or the push up he shouldn’t be leaning against you. You deserve the proper pleasurable experience and that means you’re comfortable as well as sensational. If he’s leaning too hard, push back in an aggressive way, a gentle way, or just tell him to move…

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Letting You Take Charge

Let the options be open. Just like switching positions, you wanna be on top sometimes too, and this is something your guy should do for you in bed. He should let you take control, say what you want, get as rough as you want. Mm hmm. He’ll enjoy it, don’t worry.

Emotional Stimulation

Every lady deserves some foreplay in bed. If you’re not getting a warm up session of caressing, kissing, holding, and massaging you’re missing out. Make him play his part, by letting him know what he has to work on. Stimulation for women is all in the emotions. The more tension and passion built, the harder the orgasm. Make sure he puts in the work to get you revved up.

Eye Contact

This one is important. You have to look your lover in the eyes, even if it’s a quicky. You’re having sex with that person right? And you’re enjoying that person? Then looking at them should light you up. This is definitely something you want your guy to do for you in bed. Look at you.

Is your S.O. doing any or all 8 of these things for you, in bed? Let me know in the comments. Or tell me something different you’re lucky enough to get your guy to do for you in bed.
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