Ladies: Here’s How To Make The First Move On A Guy

It used to be that it was expected a guy would make the first move in a relationship. But times have changed. The new age woman is now more bold, fierce and confident in being direct by making first advances towards the guy she wants. Here's how to make the first move on a guy.

It’s always been an unwritten rule that a guy should always be the one to make the first move when he’s interested in a woman. Times have changed though. The new age woman is now more bold, fierce and confident in being direct by making first advances towards the guy she wants. We millennials call it “shooting your shot.” Here’s how to make the first move on a guy.

Some women though can be too timid and scared to directly approach a guy they like. A lot of times women usually refrain from making the first move out of fear of being rejected or looking thirsty. Regardless of the reason, there are smooth and subtle ways to make the first move….

Spark up a Conversation

This is the normal way of the making the first move, whether you are a guy or girl. Start up a conversation that is simple yet intriguing. That way, he’ll know you are a great conversationalist from the jump.

Compliment Him

If the guy you like is a stylish dresser, then tell him he has great style. If he smells so good that you would want to jump all over him, tell him he smells great and ask what cologne he’s wearing. Don’t compliment him too much though cause then you will be doing the most. These are great tips for how to make the first move on a guy.

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Buy Him a Coffee

I know guys are notorious for buying women drinks as their first move, so we can have buying coffee as ours. If you both are in Starbucks and he’s waiting in line behind you, buy him his venti caramel macchiato.

Have Your Friend Alley-oop

If you are just way too shy to approach the guy yourself, have your girlfriend do it for you. Guys do it for their boys all the time, so we women can too. Have your girlfriend go up to the guy, ask his name etc. and then put you on. If you don’t follow this guide on how to make the first move on a guy, you’re missing out.

Now go shoot your shot girl!

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Kennisha Crawford

Kennisha is currently studying at Southern New Hampshire University to obtain her bachelors in Creative Writing. She is an avid lover of art and poetry. Her favorite word is "create" because she feels the word "represents the endless possibilities and marvelous creations the mind can conjure".