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How To Have Phone Sex Without Feeling Awkward

Having phone sex can feel like an awkward and embarrassing thing to do. You are bringing out your inner freak in word form. And while doing so, you may come to realize how you hate the sound of your voice and couldn’t see how it would turn anyone on. You also may feel like a “call-girl” minus the clientele and pay. Phone sex can be slightly intimidating for those of us who are not really into talking nasty or are just bashful to do so. However, if your partner is going to be away for some weeks on business, you’ll have to get creative in how you can keep things spicy between you two. Here’s how to have phone sex without feeling awkward.

Take a shot of tequila before-hand so you feel “loose.”

Ask your partner to start talking freaky first to help you get in the mood.

Watch Spike Lee’s “Girl 6” to get tips if you need inspo.

Be in an environment where you’re alone and feel most comfortable.

Let your imagination run wild and speak what you envision.

Personally, when I am having phone sex, I let my imagination and inner freak take control. I also use my alter ego so I don’t feel too embarrassed by all the things that I am saying. It’s a “safe” feeling you get when you create a whole different persona that allows you to say and do things you wouldn’t normally wouldn’t. Channeling your alter ego can be a good start when it comes to learning how to have phone sex.

Don’t feel like you have to be some “major freak” to have phone sex. And don’t overthink it to the point where you sound as if you “practiced” saying the freaky things you are saying. Just relax and let all your freaky sex talk flow naturally.

What do you think of these tips on how to have phone sex? Let us know what you think in the comments below!
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Kennisha Crawford

Kennisha is currently studying at Southern New Hampshire University to obtain her bachelors in Creative Writing. She is an avid lover of art and poetry. Her favorite word is "create" because she feels the word "represents the endless possibilities and marvelous creations the mind can conjure".

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