BDSM Items That Are Stylish And Discreet

These ain’t your mother’s sex toys. It’s 2019, a golden era of technology, style, and sex. With movies like Secretary and 50 Shades of Grey being so successful, a lot more people are open to trying new things. With that being said, a lot of people in the BDSM community still value being discreet. For those of you who live the lifestyle but don’t need the whole world to know, we’ve listed the most stylish and discreet BDSM items you’re going to love.

Cleo Bangle Handcuffs

These handcuffs look just like regular bracelets. The simple hardware makes it very minimal. Two bangles are connected by a chain. Engraved on one of the bracelets is “There is freedom in restraint”. Which we think is the perfect cherry on top! Wear both bangles on the same arm for work and wear them on separate arms for play. The bangles go for 36 US dollars which is a steal! Think about how you’re getting two things in one. A stylish fashion accessory and a discreet toy. And with a little built in reminder, these handcuffs are the perfect BDSM items.

Nipple & Clit Clamp

No one will be the wiser when you step out with this body chain. This chain features three clamps; two for your nipples and one for your clit. It also detaches from itself so that if you just want to sport the nipple clamps or the clit clamp, you can. This chain is the perfect accessory to dress up or down. Wear it with a crop top and jeans for a casual look or wear it underneath a silk dress to a party. The nipple and clit clamps are 34 US dollars. An outstanding price for something so stylish and versatile. 

Golden Whip Necklace

Who said BDSM items couldn’t be pretty? We are head over heels for this necklace that doubles as a whip. Wear it as a necklace or take it off, fold the collar to use as a handle, and off you go! The golden whip necklace is sold for 49 US dollars. The stunning, gold piece has a metal collar that’s very well thought out. It starts out as a half circle but comes to a point at the bottom, giving the wearer a sweetheart neckline. Sweetheart necklines are always flattering as they accentuate the chest. Pair the necklace with an off the shoulder dress or with your favorite submissive.

Palma Vibrator Ring

The last and quite possibly best of the BDSM items list comes in at a higher price of 128 US dollars. But let us tell you why you need it. First of all, it’s stylish. It comes in silver and gold which is perfect because everyone needs options. The various angles and edges make it look like a metal plated crystal. Second of all, it’s a statement piece. The ring is a couple of inches long which isn’t big for a vibrator but it is bigger than most rings. Palma is eye catching and meant to be shown off but no one will have to know it’s secret superpower.

With a rating of 5 stars and over 69 reviews, you can’t go wrong with this ring. It’s got adjustable sizing, comes with a charger, swivels, and has 5 vibration modes. 

Whew! Is it getting steamy in here or is it just us? From the handcuffs to the body chain, our brains are running wild with scenarios. What we love the most is how discreet these are! We’d have no doubt that if we wore any of these to the office, no one would realise their dual purpose. Let us know in the comments if you’d snag any of these BDSM items! As for us, they’re headed strait to our carts.

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