We’ve all looked through the magazines and seen the countless articles talking about ways to spice up your relationship. However, we rarely see topics that relate to casual sex and exploring women’s sexuality. But there are tons of reasons to have more casual sex; you can discover your true desires and let’s not leave out the fun factors associated with it. Let’s get down to it…here are the 10 reasons why you should have more casual sex!
1. Girls just wanna have fun!
When Cyndi Lauper sang this song, we all knew what she was talking about! Sex is fun, it is enjoyable, and women enjoy it as much as men do. Casual sex can spice up your life in a way that no stable relationship will. Although having an emotional connection with someone is great, not all women strive for this and that’s okay!
2. The importance of sexual healing.
Enjoying yourself physically is one of the best feelings that you can experience as a human being. And what better way to do this than to discover what you like and dislike, sexually. Being able to experiment with your sexuality is a gateway to start connecting with yourself. When you know what you like done to yourself and what you like others to do to you, this can make your future relationships stronger.
3. What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger!
Let’s be real; casual sex is not for everybody. There is a moment where you will know whether you are strong enough to be unattached, or if you can’t seem to shake that emotional connection with a person after having sex with them. This can be an eye opener in realizing what type of relationship is for you and what you can handle.
4. There are no dull commitments or unhealthy strings attached.
Nothing is promised! One of the best parts of casual sex is that there are no commitments and no strings attached. Being able to free yourself from the dulls of a relationship is an advantage to any independent woman who is not looking to settle down. Like Colin Quinn said in Trainwreck, “Monogamy is unrealistic.”
5. Everything can be communicated upfront, no one’s feelings get hurt.
If you are more in the lines of having a fuck buddy relationship, this requires for everything to be said upfront. In order for this to work, you both have to be open and clear with each other so nobody ends up getting hurt. Remember, if this is done right, your “relationship” is headed nowhere so there’s no need for some relationship drama!
6. You can enjoy cheap thrills while you still can!
Casual sex is a great way to spice up your sex life. The advantage of being single and ready to have some casual sex means that you can be Patricia on Friday and Veronica on Saturday. The possibilities are endless and you will be in control of the show!
7. It is a wonderful workout.
Lets get physical and loose some pounds while we’re at it! Sex has physical benefits beyond pleasure that can help you get toned without the hassle of hitting the gym. So quit your gym membership and start getting active!
8. You will be able to experiment what works best for your body.
Does size really matter? You will definitely find out now. Sex comes in all shapes and sizes and it is up to you to see what works best for your body.
9. You are in charge of yourself and your own decisions.
The best part about getting involved with casual sex is that you have the freedom to choose what it is that you want to do. It gives you the ability to be opened minded about sex and all the stigmas that come with it.
10. You can learn to break the gender barrier and not feel guilty for what makes you happy!
Becoming involved in casual sex may seem just that, but the reality is that it unveils a big gap in its discussion in the media. Women engaging in unattached relationships has always ended in the creation of a new one. Being unapologetic and starting to discover yourself is a new way of breaking the gender barriers that have been established when it comes to casual sex!
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Island girl from Puerto Rico! Manhattanville College class of 2019, Double Major in Political Science and Communications with a minor in Psychology. Future Lawyer, journalist and traveler. Hobbies include dancing, gym and hanging out with friends.