Many people have discreet sexual encounters that no one knows about. More people than you think have had naughty, secret sexual encounters maybe even with someone you know. Most people keep these discreet sexual encounters a secret because they do not want people they love and care about to know what really goes on behind closed doors. These discreet sexual encounters are the ones you need to know about!
1. Married Men Having Affairs With Other Men
We see these types of discreet sexual encounters on movies and television all the time. There are many gay men out there that feel societal pressures to have a “traditional” marriage to a female but just can’t resist their wants and needs to be with another man. It happens more often than many of us think. If a man is gay then that is fine but be honest with the women you intend to marry, so she knows exactly what she is getting into. There are some women that marry a gay man to help him with family pressures and if she is alright with the situation then that is awesome! Gay men are now more accepted in our society than they once were, so I believe this should not be a problem for most women but it does still exist in our society today.
2. Role Playing
One of the most popular discreet sexual encounters that most people do not want everyone to know about. Sexual role play can boost your relationship and lead to better sex with your partner. Both partners can act out their wildest sexual fantasies all while keeping their stability and bonds strong in their relationship. Try playing doctor, cop and criminal, or meeting up with a stranger.
3. Roommates Or Neighbors Meeting Up For Sex
How many of you have been in this situation before? You are attracted to your roommate and one day the lines get crossed into an intimate relationship. Many of us have been in this predicament before in the past or are currently. Maybe you and your neighbor across the hall meet up for discreet sexual encounters, so no one knows about your intimate relationship. This is a common sexual encounter that most people try to keep on the down low.
4. One-Night Stands
You go out for a night of drinking, dancing, and fun with your friends and end up leaving with that guy or girl that you were dancing with for a one-night stand. This is very common especially in college and depending if you are a man or women you may not want everyone to know about your hook-up for just one night.
5. Sex With Your Best Friend’s Man/Woman
Having sex with your best friend’s boyfriend or girlfriend is one of the top discreet sexual encounters that you’d want to keep a secret. The guilt alone that you should feel (or not) would be reason enough to at least be honest with your best friend about the affair. This sexual encounter happens often as well especially with young men and women as they explore their sexuality.
6. Sex With A Person From Another Race
Yes, this seems absurd for those of you who grew up in a big city but in some places, there are still a lot of people that don’t believe in different races dating or being together. This couple may go out of town or meet in the middle of nowhere just to have discreet sexual encounters and time alone. Trust and believe this is still a frowned upon by some people.
7. A Professor Having A Sexual Relationship With Their Student
A professor promising good grades to a student if they will have sexual relations is a forbidden sexual encounter, which happens often. It is certainly unethical and against most school policies but is a very common discreet sexual encounter in our society today.
8. Swinger’s Clubs
A swinger’s club is certainly one of the least known about discreet sexual encounters. Many bigger cities have swinger’s clubs and there are certainly some rules that need to be set before you decide to jump into this lifestyle headfirst. If your significant other, husband/wife or partner want to test the swinger’s club out then make sure you do some research to make sure it is something you both really want beforehand.
9. Employee’s Having Sex With Their Boss
An employee having sex with their boss is one of those discreet sexual encounters that many people keep a secret for various reasons. Most businesses have policies that make this type of relationship one that is forbidden. There are also sexual harassment laws in place to protect employers and employees but this relationship still exists.
10. S & M
Sadomasochism is very common today but there are still people that would prefer to keep this lifestyle a secret from those who know them for various reasons. The novel Fifty Shades of Grey by E. L. James really brought this lifestyle to mainstream society in a sexy way.