15 Things Every Guy Wishes You Would Do During Sex

The truth about sex is that we usually want something, but don’t know how to express that to our partners. This may come from a fear of hurting someone’s ego or making them uncomfortable during the act. Whether it’s a long time relationship or a one night stand, there are always things to approve upon. Instead of settling for mediocre sex, take some advice from men all over the world. Here are 15 things every guy wishes you would do during sex!

1. Be Spontaneous

Instead of looking at sex as a routine and doing it in the same places as usual, try being a little adventurous. Reach under the dinner table for some foreplay and get freaky on the kitchen floor or try sex in a place you both have always wanted to do it. Sex should be fun, so take things out of the bedroom for a change.

2. Take Control

Men are more commonly the ones who are calling the shots when it comes to sex. But, it would be a hell of a lot sexier for you to take control of things and tell him exactly what you want. It will turn him on and will help boost your ego big time.

3. Communicate

You’ve probably heard this a million of times, but communication is absolutely key. No one wants to have bad sex and if they take it personally when you give advice, you probably shouldn’t be having sex with them at all. You should both be doing whatever feels the best and that doesn’t come from guessing games. Break down that wall and be open!

4. Initiate More

This is pretty self-explanatory, but you cannot wait on him to make the first move every single time. Sex is between the both of you, so you need to make sure you are initiating just as much as he is!

5. Pay attention to their balls

This is something that a lot of men want more of. A man’s balls are a place where he can get A LOT of pleasure, but tends to be left out. Go the extra mile every now and then and please him.

6. Use your hands more

When you have sex, especially in relationships, you tend to get lazy and forget that your hands are secret weapons of sexual pleasure. Use them to explore your partner’s body or turn things up a notch and pleasure yourself.

7. Try new things

Using the same positions, in the same place, on the same day of the week is going to make sex miserable. You need to be willing to try new things every now and then. This can be as simple as bringing toys into the bedroom.

8. Tell them what you want

A man loves to feel in charge and gets off from pleasing you. He can’t do that if you don’t tell him exactly what turns you on. Walk him through what feels the best and you both will enjoy the ride.

9. Be encouraging

Don’t forget to let your partner know that what they’re doing feels good. Make some noise and let him know that he’s putting in the work.

10. Stop being self-conscious

Let’s face it, we all are self-conscious and that is really life. But, you need to know that the person you are having sex with could really give a shit less about the hair on your legs or the not so kept up bikini wax. That is the LAST thing on their mind. Trust.

11. Get a little kinky

Don’t be afraid to let the inner freak out. Whether it’s bringing in things like rope or getting dressed up in some sexy lingerie, try something kinky and make sex fun for the both of you.

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12. Talk dirty

Dirty talk is the simplest way (when done right) to get things going between you and the person you’re having sex with.

13. Play out fantasies you’re comfortable with

We all have sexual fantasies we would love to play out, but are hesitant to tell our partners about. But, because we ALL have them, you should feel less weird about bringing them up. Once you do, your partner will most likely be more than ready to fulfill them with you! Just be open.

14. Be honest and don’t fake it

There is nothing worse than faking an orgasm and telling your partner something feels good when it doesn’t. Why would you let someone continue to do something when it sucks? Just be honest and let them know how to improve so you both can get the most pleasure out of the experience.

15. Kiss more

This is the simplest mistake that we all fall into when we get into sex. Kiss their lips, neck, face, chest, EVERYWHERE. If it feels good for you both, then go for it!