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5 Reasons Why You Should Hook Up More

Hook up culture has made having one-night stands and fuck buddies more acceptable today especially since we have dating apps like Tinder and Bumble to make it easier for us to find a booty call. Casual sex is exactly what it is – casual. It’s easygoing, relaxed, and there are no strings attached. So, there’s no need to feel like a hook up is such a terrible thing. You do it because you feel comfortable and are in the mood for intimacy without having to worry about actual feelings and emotions. It’s just lust. If you’re looking for a reason to schedule that booty call, then look no further. Here are 5 reasons why you should hook up more. 

1. Your pleasure becomes a priority

When you decide to hook up, you make your own pleasure the priority during sex. You’re seeking out a booty call because you want to feel good, and that’s the main reason you should hook up more! You’re not just having sex because they want to, you want it too! Probably even more than they do. You deserve to spoil yourself and feel amazing. The orgasm you get will be way more intense because you made getting it your main concern. When you make your own pleasure a priority, you feel a sense of empowerment, and feeling powerful is sexy!

2. You get to discover what you do and don’t like in bed

Because your pleasure is your priority, when you hook up more, you get to explore all there is to do with sex. Maybe during a sex session, you get your toes licked and it freaks you out. Now you know for sure that you don’t have a foot fetish. You get to explore different types of sex partners and learn new things from them, and you get to discover what you’re into and what you’re not into. It’s fun trying new things, and it’s important to know where you draw the line. 

3. You can finally move on from your ex

Jumping into a new relationship right after a break up probably isn’t the best idea, but moping around in your sorrows all day and waiting for them to come back isn’t an option either. So, what do you do? Rebound sex. Hook up with someone and have a little fun with your life. You’ll learn to understand that heartache doesn’t last forever, and there are so many other opportunities out there for you. Enjoy doing things for yourself. Who knows? Maybe your next relationship could come from being fuck buddies with someone. But take a bit of time between romantic partners and just have fun. You deserve it.

4. Your fantasies can become a reality

Let’s say you’ve always wanted to try something kinky in bed. Hookups are great for exploring those fantasies because you know the person will be into the idea, too. If it didn’t go as well as you expected, you can just ghost them. You won’t have to worry about making things awkward. No feelings hurt because no strings attached. 

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5. There’s no commitment

You don’t have to worry about all the things that come with being in a relationship when you’re just hooking up. Maybe you don’t want to put all the time and effort it takes into being in a serious relationship with someone because you’re too busy. Maybe you’re just not ready to be tied down to someone just yet because it’s scary or you haven’t found the right person. That’s okay. Hooking up allows you to explore your horizons and make sure that you’re happy with and by yourself before you decide to settle down.

Did these reasons keep you from being discouraged about that next hook up appointment? Let us know in the comments!

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