8 Kinky Things You Can Do To Spice Up Your Valentine’s Night

Valentines Day! The most romantic night of the year where love its celebrated and enjoy its coming! If you and your partner have been together for a long time now, you could have celebrated a few of this together already, but don’t think you have run out of ideas on how to celebrate it. Also, if you have been doing the traditional movie, dinner combo for this special date, it’s time to twist things a little bit and spice them up. And yes, we are talking about doing something extra spicy for that valentine’s night that will keep that flame between you two alive.

When deciding on doing sometime like this you should know your partner really well beforehand and could choose two paths, you either surprise it with a different kind of night or talk it with your other half so you guys can plan it out and be on the same page about limits and things you would like to try. Remember that pleasure it’s the main idea of the whole night, so be honest if you are feeling uncomfortable or at risk at any time and stop whatever you are doing. And most of all don’t be afraid of getting creative!

8 Kinky Things You Can Do To Spice Up Your Valentine’s Night

1. Try Some Role-Play

Role-playing is basically becoming someone else for a few hours, in this case in an erotic way. Some people tend to think that role-playing is a way of overcoming sexual inhibitions since you are becoming someone different with diverse desires. Role-playing can easily go from wearing an unusual costume as a way of exciting your partner, for example, a police officer to create a whole scenario, including costumes and a different situation let’s say you become a model and your partner plays the role of a photographer which will allow it to take pictures during the act. Role-play can also include other topics like age-play, animal-play, submission, BDSM, gender-play and other things you might want to explore during your valentine’s night.

8 Kinky Things You Can Do To Spice Up Your Valentine’s Night

2. Make Your Own R-Rated Tape

A way of spicing up your valentine’s night can be creating your own R-rated movie. You could start preparing everything beforehand, we mean preparing the situation, the place you want to tape it, the outfits you are going to wear and how you are going to tape it. Once the date arrives you can produce your own adult fil, with you and your soul mate as the main stars of the film. Don’t be shy and let yourself forget about being recorded, after you could sit and watch the tape together or if you guys are feeling bold enough you could even upload it to any adult site and have others enjoy it as well.

8 Kinky Things You Can Do To Spice Up Your Valentine’s Night

3. Visit A Strip Club Together

Whatever it’s a male-only, female-only or one where you could find dancers of both genders visiting a strip club together can be a really enticing experience. We don’t really recommend this idea if you or your partner tend to be threatened easily by the thought of being around good-looking people, but if this doesn’t matter to you at all, then go ahead, keep in mind that is all about having fun! You could even start playing with your partner while the show goes on in front of you and have it really excited, then getting back home and have your own private show if you know what we mean.

8 Kinky Things You Can Do To Spice Up Your Valentine’s Night

4. Talk About Fetishes

There are lots of fetishes out there in the market you might even not know about but feel intrigued when you read about them. Search around the web which ones are the most common and share them with your partner. If both of you like it, take advantage of valentine’s night to try any of those, things can become extra wild and you can both discover a way of exciting each other with something you never imagined. Or if you already know there is something your partner has really been wanting to try to surprise it on that day with those fetishes coming true!

8 Kinky Things You Can Do To Spice Up Your Valentine’s Night

5. Food Is Not Only For The Kitchen

Sometimes we are a bit reluctant about including food items in our bedroom, but it can become a very hot experience. Prepare everything before, in case you are having sex on the bed be sure to put some plastic on top of the mattress or some type of fabric to protect it, because trust us, you guys are going to make a little bit of a mess on your spicy valentine’s night. You could try licking things like whipped cream or chocolate sauce from each other’s body, taking body-shots, experiment vegetable penetration or play with some candies whatever gets you turned on.

8 Kinky Things You Can Do To Spice Up Your Valentine’s Night

6. Heighten Your Senses

They say that when one sense is turned off others heighten. We know that senses cannot be really turned off, but there are ways of making you less aware of them and letting other senses take over to elevate the experience to a whole new level. You could try either being blindfolded, using earplugs that won’t let you hear anything or tie your hands while you are being teased by your partner with a vibrator, something that changes your body temperature like ice cubes or liquid wax, being teased by a feather or leather gloves. The idea is to experiment with something that will change your point of view of things and let yourself flow in sensations!

8 Kinky Things You Can Do To Spice Up Your Valentine’s Night

7. Hot Board Games

Spicing up your night is not only about getting down to business and ending really fast, but it’s also about laughing, getting to know each other better and most of all spending a great time. Adding sex board games can be an awesome idea to make the foreplay more entertaining and can help you out with figuring out somethings you didn’t know your partner liked. Sex board games don’t have to be expensive and you can even DIY them. It can also be a great idea to gift to your other half on cupid’s special day and using it for the first time on that valentine’s night, as they say, two birds in one shot!

8 Kinky Things You Can Do To Spice Up Your Valentine’s Night

8. Go Sex Toy Shopping

Who said toys were just for kids? A great plan is that instead of buying each other a present for this special date, go together and get something for the pleasure of both. Try getting something you have never tried before so it can also become a new experience for the both of you. It can also be a really exciting experience visiting a sex shop together where you can get new ideas to try out, learn some of your partner’s hidden fantasies or just buy a new flavor of lube to try it later at valentine’s night.

8 Kinky Things You Can Do To Spice Up Your Valentine’s Night

Can’t wait for your own spicy valentine’s night? Just remember to have fun, be safe and creative!

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