Hooking Up: The Signs He’s Not Interested In Dating

If you're hooking up with a guy and think you see signs he's not interested in taking it a step further - AKA dating, then here's the top tell-tale things to expect.

You know when you first hook up with a boy your really interested in and you can already picture your entire future with them, your kids, your house, etc.? Than after some time with him you start getting the feeling that this guy who seems really interested is in fact not so interested in you or your future. I always say there is three types of guy attitudes in a relationship, the one who really likes you and goes out of his way to make it known and obvious to you, the one who pays little attention to you and makes it very known that he’s just down to hook up and that’s it, than there is the guy who falls in between the one that you think is interested but then maybe not… but then again he may.. but no. Here are 10 signs he’s not interested in dating:

1. He doesn’t ask about your life, your hobbies, your job.

2. He only hits you up at late hours.

3. He doesn’t tell your mutual friends.

4. He makes no effort to be around you.

If he is truly interested in you he’s going to make an effort. Guys are for the most part highly ambitious, when they want something for themselves they will go the extra mile to get what they want. So if he’s not spending time with you or going out of his way to make time for you, instead he’s just making excuses on why he can’t be around you than the answer is simple, he’s just not interested in you.

5. He never contacts you first

6. He is reluctant to bring you around his friends or family.

7. He doesn’t talk about or reveal personal information about himself to you.

8. When you try to make plans he is always busy.

9. He flirts with other woman right in front of you.

10. When you bring up the topic of your future together he says he’s not looking for anything serious.

This is the most simple and most obvious way of knowing that this relationship you think will happen over time with this guy is merely something you are just fantasizing about. If a guy is truly into you and wants to not just be a hook up anymore but have a future with you he’s not going to have there be any chance of another guy picking you up. He’s going to claim you as his girl.