Sex in college is all about experimenting and having a good time. But, that leaves room for a lot of mistakes that can make sex not so great. To make the most of your college sex life, here are the 15 best sex advice tips that all college guys need to know!
Getting regularly tested for STDs when you’re sexually active is so important. There are tons of diseases you can have and not even know it. Do yourself a favor and get checked.
Never have unprotected sex, even if she says she’s on birth control. Not only do you increase the risk of an STD, but you increase the risk of being a college baby daddy.
It’s important that you know who you’re having sex with and what they may/may not have. Don’t feel weird asking. If it makes her uncomfortable, she may be hiding something or she may be a little too immature to be having sex.
Don’t assume your roommate is cool with you having sex in the room every other night. Talk to them about it.
Also, don’t have sex with your roommate. Things can get really weird, especially if it goes bad. You’re stuck with them for at least a year.
NEVER EVER HAVE DRUNK SEX. Even if they consent, there is always the risk that “they didn’t know what they were doing”. You don’t want to be in that position.
If your professor comes on to you, don’t do it. Obviously, living out a taboo, movie-like fantasy would be a blast. But, the circumstances that come with that are beyond bad; like, you’ll be kicked out of college and they’ll lose their job, bad. Just don’t do it.
Please don’t be that douchebag. You don’t have to take her out on a date or even hook up with her again. All you need to do is at least text her or message her with a simple “hey”, have a little convo and that’s it. You wouldn’t want to be ghosted, so don’t do it to her.
If you know that it’s just a hookup and you’re only in it for the good times, let her know. It’s better to hook up with someone who wants the same thing as you. No strings attached (which is usually impossible, but whatever).
As convenient as it may be, sex shouldn’t be a show for anyone. Frat houses and sororities are full of people with little to no privacy.
Test the boundaries and find out what you like!
Maybe you’re a virgin or chances are, someone you have sex with will be. Be conscious of that when you’re hooking up with people because a lot of the time they won’t tell you.
No matter who it is, never treat the person you’re having sex with any less than you would want to be treated. As motherly as it sounds, people are vulnerable when they have sex. You need to respect it.
It isn’t a game and it isn’t a race. You don’t need to have sex with 30 people to feel good about yourself. Half the time, people are bullshitting you and most likely aren’t having sex at all.
Last, but never least, is consent. I didn’t put it first because by now you’ve heard it 100 times. But, it is the most important of the tips.
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