Is He Playing Hard To Get? These Are The Signs

Dating can be hard, but it is so much worse when you can't read the guy. Is he throwing signs that are confusing AF? If so, is he playing hard to get? Here are some signs to help you figure that out!

There’s probably nothing more frustrating than someone you have a crush on playing hard to get! It not only leaves you confused AF but also unsure of where you stand in his life. Situations like these can get pretty annoying. You’re being there for them, but they seem to fly in and out of your life constantly. Everyone likes getting attention from someone they are into, but sometimes some of them only want the attention they are receiving and nothing more, which is something important to understand. So, is he playing hard to get? Here are some signs to help you figure that out!

1. The Story of ‘Other Girls’

If he brings up the fact that a certain girl keeps texting him over and over again one day, and then another one on another day, he might be playing hard to get! He may not be into any of them but bringing their stories up means he is probably seeking your attention.

2. Sporadic Texting

If you’ve sent him messages over and over again, and he replies to them occasionally, this is a sign that he is playing hard to get! He likes the attention he’s receiving so he continues playing the game of the sporadic texter.

3. Not Being Open Enough

How much do you know about your guy? Guys who play hard to get often keep their past a coded mystery, which leaves you wondering about it even more!

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4. His Friends Don’t Know About You

There are cases when two partners decide to keep their relationship private, however, the majority don’t. If he spends time with you but he avoids the conversation of you meeting his friends every time it comes up, he is playing hard to get!

5. He Is Impolite

This can often be a sign that he is either a total jerk or playing hard to get. He might see you as someone who is always there for him, but he never appreciates that. Maybe you are giving him more attention than what he truly deserves!