An Open Letter To My High School Boyfriend

Dear High School Boyfriend,

I know that it’s been a while and I know that this is probably very unexpected, especially coming from me, but I wanted to write you a thank you letter.

Thank you for breaking up with me.

That’s definitely a sentence that I never thought I’d say, but truly mean today. Through our breakup I experienced a great deal of pain, but I also learned how to overcome it. You taught me that personal reflection is my favourite coping mechanism.

Thank you for giving me time to find peace in being single and to become more confident with myself.

An opportunity to do so was exactly what I needed the most.

 

Thank you for not pushing me beyond the limitations that I had set for myself.

Because my great sense of self respect is something that I continue to take pride in today.

Thank you for confirming that I cannot please everyone.

I no longer care to.

 

See Also

Thank you for understanding that there is no need to force a friendship after being more than friends.

Sometimes space is the best solution.

Thank you for allowing me to realize that one day there would be someone who was willing to put in the effort that you lacked.

Thank you for teaching me that a first relationship and first love do not necessarily go hand in hand.

I believe that a first love is a feeling. You were a first relationship.

And finally, thank you for proving to me that by never saying “I love you,” I made a good decision.

Frankly, I’m glad that I saved it for someone who meant it in return.

Sincerely,

Your High School Girlfriend

Featured image source: pix-hd.com
Samantha Diehl

Sammie is a first year Marketing Management student at the University of Guelph whose passions include dance, yoga, fashion, and trying new foods. She strives to find artistic beauty in every aspect of life and hopes to continue make eyeopening discoveries by one day traveling the world.

Recent Posts

15 Famous Alumni From Dalhousie University

It's always fun to brag about who used to go to your school. Lucky for us, Dalhousie has an abundance…

54 minutes ago

Chic Party Decor For Your Summer BBQ

The arrival of summer only means it's time for BBQ parties! Whether it'd be for a birthday or just a…

2 hours ago

5 Reasons Why I Chose To Go To York University

This article is not an #ad for York University, rather it is an introspective look as to why I chose to…

3 hours ago

20 Things You Only Understand If You Go To Dalhousie University

As a 3rd year undergraduate Dalhousie student, I've definitely faced many challenges and advantages that friends of my hometown university haven't.…

11 hours ago

10 Healthy Foods For Glowing Skin

Eating bad foods has a negative impact on your skin. If you love eating and love healthy skin, then indulge…

12 hours ago

Best Tips On How To Increase Your Instagram Followers

Ever since its launch in 2010, Instagram has been one of the most powerful social media platforms used for acquiring…

13 hours ago