So you have decided to have anal sex with your partner or are seriously thinking about it. The mere idea can be quite daunting and, truth to be told, it is not for everyone. But, like all things in life, don’t knock it till you try it. For a better and memorable experience, here are some anal sex tips you didn’t know you need it.
Take things slow, as slow as possible. It might seem kind of an obvious one, but in the middle of the heat, you could want to get it done straight away. So stop thinking about the outcome and focus on the process. Make sure you are ready because you do need to relax before getting to penetration. Foreplay and gentle touches are the way to achieve this. Invite your partner to lick you up, grab your ass and to taste you all over. Focus on the sounds and the touch. And then, let them know when you’re ready.
Yes, yes, we get that you wouldn’t normally think about tickling yourself on your butt while masturbating, but it’s worth giving it a go. That way, when it comes to the actual thing with your partner, it won’t feel as overwhelming and foreign.
There’s no such a thing as “enough lube”, so make sure you use tons of it. Plenty of lubricant will make anal penetration smoother and more pleasurable. Be generous and bring in some extra organic lube just in case.
Anal sex isn’t doggy style by default; that’s a myth. You can have anal sex in every possible position, including missionary. If you are not quite feeling it at first, it’s worth to explore different positions until you find the most pleasurable one.
Shower sex is not such a bad idea when anal sex is involved. Water relaxes you, helps you become looser and facilitates anal play. A bonus is that you won’t be as concerned with cleanliness.
Invite your partner to masturbate you while they’re penetrating you. For women in particular, getting off anal stimulation is much harder. Vaginal, clitoral or nipple stimulation can enhance the experience and make it so much enjoyable.
*This is a sponsored post. All opinions are my own.
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