I’ve known plenty of girls over the years who never learned to masturbate. It is understandable though, masturbation has had a bad reputation throughout history. While today social taboos like LBGT rights and pot smoking are dropping left and right, there is still a sense of shame that surrounds many when it comes to masturbation. Especially with girls. Boys tend to be told that their bodies are going to start having urges, that they have nothing to be ashamed of and that it is all natural. Girls are told it is all natural too, but I don’t think I’ve ever met anyone whose mother gave them a talk about how girls can learn to masturbate. Would it be an uncomfortable talk? Sure, but it beats the alternative of girls thinking that if they masturbate that they are dirty or wrong. I got news for you though! IT’S NOT! Masturbation, whether it is done by a man or a woman, it a natural, healthy, and enjoyable act that can do more for you than just put you in a great mood. Which is why every girl needs to learn to masturbate.
You should know your body better an anyone. After all it is the one thing you will have with you your entire life. Getting to know yourself in an intimate way is a big part of that. Once you get to know what you like and what works for your body you’ll feel a sense of control of your sex life giving you all sorts of girl power swag.
When you have an orgasm it basically releases all the tension in your body and as a result it can relieve physical pain in your body to a point. It satisfies your libido making everything else just fall away. At the end of the day when you can’t sleep cause there is just too much on your mind forget counting the sheep and just masturbate. It gets your mind off of whatever is bothering you and just lets you fall right to sleep after you’ve climaxed.
There are plenty of woman out there though who have had sex with plenty of people and have had a variety of sexual experiences, but still have never been able to achieve an orgasm during sex. We think that it is out sexual partners job to get us off, and it is in part, but how are they supposed to satisfy you if you don’t even know how to satisfy you?
By understanding how your body works you will be able to figure out what your body needs in order to climax. It doesn’t happen instantly though. The first time you get to know yourself down there it might be a little intimidating and uncomfortable, but once you properly learn to masturbate in a way that works for you everything will be smooth sailing from there on. Then one you get the hand of it you will be able to experience orgasms more frequently. It won’t matter if you are by yourself or with a partner. You can even be as so lucky as to begin having multiple orgasms when you are with someone. Men only get to enjoy the pleasure once which declares the end of sex, but if you’ve learned what works for your body you can enjoy the pleasure again and again.
As long as you are washing your sex toys and hands before and after masturbating there are no downsides to flicking your bean. You can’t get an STD, you won’t get pregnant, and once you learn what you enjoy you will feel great every time you do it! So get to it and start learning more about your body than you ever have before.
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