Having a threesome, is most if not all men’s fantasy. The thought of them having a scintillating and extremely freaky sexual encounter with two women at once, is a dream come true. And a lot of times, it stays as just a dream. A good number of women, will always prefer having “one on one” sex because of how intimate it is with all the emotions and feelings that one feels while doing it. But, what do you do when your boyfriend wants a threesome and you don’t? That is where it can get interesting. Here’s what to do if you’re boyfriend wants a threesome:
Men usually always know what we women will and won’t go for. With sex though, both species can usually be very open and down for whatever, until that involves being asked to have a threesome. If your boyfriend asks you to have a threesome and you know that is not something you could picture yourself doing, then tell him that directly. Don’t dance around the question or say “maybe” unless you are going to take the time to truly think about it.
A threesome isn’t something a couple should do lightly for the simple fact that you will now be inviting someone into your private sex life. Tell your partner how the thought of that makes you feel and how it could possibly change the sexually dynamic between you two. For instance, if he enjoyed it and wants to do it again but you didn’t, it can lead to there being an issue in your relationship. And if you do have the threesome as a one-time thing, make sure you tell your boyfriend that beforehand so that will limit any possible confusion later on.
If having a threesome is going to make you feel a certain kind way as if you aren’t enough to please your boyfriend or make you feel uncomfortable overall, communicate those feelings to him. Don’t just have the threesome to make him happy at the expense of your own. Make sure it is something you will be ok with doing and if it isn’t, your boyfriend will just have to accept that.
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