Flirting with a man is hard. You never really know what is going on in his head. You hope that it’s all good. But sometimes it may not be. And it has nothing to do with your appearance. Men look at so much more than that. In fact, while what you look like is the first thing they see it’s not necessarily the most important thing. So here are 10 ways to attract a man without being too obvious, and none of them have to do with how you look.
Being feminine is the greatest thing a girl can do. And it’s a trait that no masculine guy could ever resist. Don’t ever assume that displaying your femininity is a sign of weakness or the weaker sex because that is totally wrong. You can be feminine and girly, and still be in control of every situation that you’re in. Men like a feminine woman, it’s a fact.
Be a little playful. In every successful relationship, playfulness is a trait that plays a big part in it. Be that happy and fun loving girl who’s alive and the center of attention in her world, you will immediately catch the attention of every man in the room. Men love a girl who is playful and cheerful. And they really despise hate girls who are constantly stressed or unhappy and depressed, they are a downer to be around. Laugh, have a sense of humor and tease the guy you like. He’ll be under your spell in an instant! This is one of the ways to attract a man!
Even if you have a pretty face it’s blank and meaningless without any expressions. It is very important that you make eye contact with the man as you make conversation. It will go a long way. Smile coyly when you say something naughty, roll your eyes when he acts like an idiot, and smile genuinely when you’re talking to him. The way that you smile, use your eyes and your voice to express yourself will leave him totally mesmerized by you.
4. Self -Esteem
Be confident! This is very important. Fall in love with who you are, and respect yourself for the person that you are. If you don’t like who you are then no one else will be able to. Self-respect and self-worth play a big part in your attitude towards the world, and the way that the world will see you. Focus on your talents and develop them. Trust your intuition. Don’t change who you are, unless you think you can change and be a better person. Believe in yourself, and you won’t put yourself down in front of a guy just to impress him. A confident woman signifies to a man that she can hold her own around him. And that is straight up sexy! This is one of the ways to attract a man!
Men who are secure about themselves (the only kind of guys you should ever date) don’t feel threatened by a woman who is intelligent and aware of the world. In fact, guys love a girl who can have an intelligent conversation with them about worldly affairs.
You can look pretty and catch his eye, but if you can’t keep up a conversation with him, he’d just look at you as arm candy and not someone he can have a deep conversation and fall in love with. But keep this in mind, use your intelligence in a cooperative manner, not in a competitive way. This is important! Doing that will just lead to the clashes of egos and angry confrontations. Make him feel like you are equals.
Guys want to feel like the protectors, and they want to take care of their woman. It’s adorable. When you make a man feel needed, he falls more in love with you. But there is that thin little line between making him feel needed and coming across as the clingy girlfriend who can’t do anything for herself. Be independent and in control of your own life. You can ask a man for help when he’s around, but when you’re on your own let him see that you are capable of running your own life without his help. It’ll draw him closer to you and make him want to be more involved in your life. And don’t be afraid to get your hands a little dirty in the process. When my dad first met my mom she was cleaning out her gutters. He loved that. This is one of the ways to attract a man!
Men are instantly attracted to kindness. And beyond the somewhat trivial physical traits, how kind and considerate a girl is will play a huge part in the game of attraction. A kind girl will catch more men than she will ever know. Being gentle and kind is a good thing, even if society tells you otherwise. You will make the world a better place.
This is a sneaky tip that will work miracles for you. Every woman should have a signature scent to start with. Smell great around the man you’re trying to impress. Each time he catches a waft of your fragrance as you walk past him, or move your hands while gesticulating something, he’ll feel just a little weaker and a lot more attracted to you!
9. Inner Beauty
You may think a man falls in love with a girl based on her physical appearances. But truth be told, he falls in love with the projection of how the girl feels about herself. That mystical glow of sex appeal and beauty comes from within you. If you don’t feel like you look pretty when you look at yourself in the mirror, how can you expect others to find you attractive too? It takes a minute or less for inner beauty to kick in and work its magic when talking to a man. And it goes both ways.
10. Zest for Life
Do you love life? Like really love it? Do you think you’re spontaneous and alive? Men absolutely love a girl who is full of boundless energy and always ready for a new and exciting adventure. If a man stares at a group of girls, the first one that will catch his eye and interest him is the one who is the most energetic and fun. So make sure that you are that girl. This is one of the ways to attract a man!