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First dates can be tricky. Will you like them, will they like you, will you have a connection, will you be attracted to them? The questions and puzzles we go through in our minds before a first date can be daunting. You want to give the best impression of yourself on first dates and make sure you have a good time. Follow our guide on 10 things NOT to do on a first date to make sure you\u2019re doing everything right.<\/p>\n

1. Don\u2019t Let Nerves Take Over<\/h2>\n

It\u2019s completely normal to get nervous for a first date, and if you don\u2019t, you\u2019re very lucky. Chances are if you like the person, you\u2019re already going to be nervous for the first date, so try not to let these nerves overcome you when you\u2019re actually on the date, or you won\u2019t have a good time. It\u2019s easy to worry, but really what are you worrying about? If you try and relax, keep cool and just be yourself chances are you\u2019ll come across great and have a great time!<\/p>\n

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2. Don\u2019t Talk About Your Ex\u2019s<\/h2>\n

One of the most common mistakes to make on first dates is talking about your exes. In short, talking about your ex on a date with someone new is awkward and unnecessary. Sure, at some point your date might want to hear about your relationship history, but not on the first date when they\u2019re trying to have a good time. You also don\u2019t want to give the impression you\u2019re still into your ex by going on about them on the first date, and if you are, then you probably shouldn\u2019t be dating\u2026<\/p>\n

3. Don\u2019t Get Too Personal Too Soon<\/h2>\n

Delving deep into your personal life or personal issues on first dates can be a bit much. As the first date should be fun and about getting to know each other on a casual level. If you feel comfortable around them great, but don\u2019t give away too much too soon to someone you\u2019ve just met.<\/p>\n

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4. Don\u2019t Get Too Attached Too Soon<\/h2>\n

If you like them after the first date, then that\u2019s great! However, you don\u2019t want to get attached too soon, just in case they\u2019re not into you. Try and wait a couple of days after the date to text them, unless they say otherwise. You want to seem interested, just not overly keen, because this can be off-putting and will just be awkward for you if the feeling isn\u2019t mutual.<\/p>\n

5. Don\u2019t Be Cheap With The Bill<\/h2>\n

There\u2019s typically a lot of speculation on first dates about who should pay the bill, but whoever you\u2019re dating, don\u2019t expect them to foot the bill. It\u2019s rude and presumptuous. If they offer to pay then great, but don\u2019t expect it, get your wallet out and prepare to pay for your own meal!<\/p>\n

6.\u00a0Watch What You Eat<\/h2>\n

If you\u2019re eating out for your first date, you might want to consider watching what you eat. Pasta, for example, can be messy and you don\u2019t want to end up spilling it down your new dress\/suit you bought specifically for the date!<\/p>\n

7. To Kiss or Not to Kiss<\/h2>\n

This is a tricky one, some people would say kiss on a first date, some would say it\u2019s bad luck. It\u2019s really up to you and if you\u2019re feeling it great, go for it! However, you don\u2019t want to seem to forward and if it is someone you just met, you might want to reconsider a kiss for the first date.<\/p>\n

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8. Forget Your Manners<\/h2>\n

Always be polite, you want to give the best first impression of yourself possible for your first date, so think please and thank you, holding doors open and eat with your mouth shut. This doesn\u2019t just speak for your date, wherever you go, be friendly and polite and make sure your date gets a good first impression!<\/p>\n

9. Get Too Drunk<\/h2>\n

Getting too drunk on a first date is an easy mistake to make, especially if you\u2019re having a great time. However, just be careful you don\u2019t overdo it. The last thing you want is to get so drunk you don\u2019t remember the date, or this stranger has to become responsible for looking after you! Again, it creates a bad first impression and if you know what\u2019s going on during your date, you\u2019re sure to have a much better time!<\/p>\n

10. Focus Too Much On What Not To Do, Just Have a Good Time!<\/h2>\n

Now we\u2019ve covered all the things not to do on a first date, don\u2019t focus too much on what not to do, and make sure you\u2019re having a great time! First dates should be fun and flirty and is a great chance to get to know a person who might just turn into a special someone. So, relax, make sure you feel and look good, and most importantly enjoy yourself!<\/p>\n

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These tips are great advice for first dates, however, everyone has different opinions when it comes to dating about what’s right and wrong. Wherever you end up on your first date or whoever you’re dating, just remember to be safe, have fun and always be yourself!<\/p>\n

Got any first date tips of your own? Let us know in the comments!<\/h3>\n

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