{"id":145732,"date":"2026-03-21T18:40:18","date_gmt":"2026-03-21T18:40:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/?p=145732"},"modified":"2026-03-21T18:40:18","modified_gmt":"2026-03-21T18:40:18","slug":"techniques-you-need-to-try-to-spice-up-your-sex-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/techniques-you-need-to-try-to-spice-up-your-sex-life\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Techniques You Need To Try To Spice Up Your Sex Life"},"content":{"rendered":"

Are you looking for ways to impress a new flame in the bedroom? Or simply trying to reignite that old spark with your partner. Whatever the reason for your sex life rejuvenation, here are 5 simple tips you need to try to turn up the heat.<\/p>\n

1. Naked Time<\/h2>\n

Seems like an obvious one, but not in the way you think. If you want to improve your sex life together, you need to get comfortable with each other and appreciate each other’s bodies. This way, when it comes to getting in on, you won’t feel uncomfortable or like you don’t know where to start. And no, you don’t just have to stand there naked and awkwardly stare at each-other for this to work, chill out together as normal just…naked. Watch a movie, take a shower, or even order some pizza (just make sure you cover up before you answer the door to the pizza guy).<\/p>\n

\n

2) Comfortable In Your Own Skin<\/h2>\n

What’s the number one key to success in the bedroom? C-O-N-F-I-D-E-N-C-E. If you feel fabulous and comfortable in your own skin, trust me, your partner is going to notice and your sex life is going to improve tenfold. There’s nothing worse than when you’re trying to get in the moment than catching a glimpse of your love handles at the wrong angle. Suddenly, your brain is set to obsessing over your lumpy bits rather than enjoying the moment.<\/p>\n

I know it’s difficult advice to follow, but we all need to be more accepting of ourselves and realise that we see ourselves so much more critically than others do. Trust me, your love handles are the last thing your partner will be thinking of when they’re getting hot and heavy with you in the sheets.<\/p>\n

3) Get out of the bedroom<\/h2>\n

Staring at the same four walls then you’re getting it on can get real boring, it also lends to sex getting repetitive which, we all know, can be a real sex life killer. If you’re looking to shake things up a bit, get yourselves outside of the usual spot, whether that’s just the kitchen, or a holiday destination. In all honesty, the destination doesn’t matter so much (so long as you’re not breaking any indecency laws), as long as you’re outside of your comfort zone, you take a leap of faith, your sex life will too.<\/p>\n

4) Music makes you lose control<\/h2>\n

Have you ever watched those steamy movie scenes and wondered why your sex life wasn’t so smooth? Well, whilst real-life sex certainly has its ‘oops’ moments, you can certainly get that cinematic feel in the bedroom by creating a sultry playlist to get you both in the mood. Take it anywhere from Magic Mike to relaxing ocean sounds, whatever gets you feeling relaxed and in the moment. Added bonus, you don’t have to worry about any awkward unwanted sex noises (you know what I’m talking about).<\/p>\n

5) Lace it up<\/h2>\n

If there’s one way to drive your partner wild, it’s new lingerie. You can go full suspender and stockings, or simply a cute matching bralette and panties, simply making that extra effort to seduce them will take your intimate session to a new level. Plus, there’s nothing like new underwear to boost your confidence and bring out your inner Victoria Secret model.<\/p>\n

\n

The most important thing to remember whilst having sex is to make sure that you and your partner are comfortable and respect each other. Once that is established, all that’s left is to have a good time. Be sure to take these tips on board to ensure your sex life stays sizzling.<\/h3>\n

featured image source: https:\/\/weheartit.com\/entry\/8358638?context_query=sex+beach&context_sort=most_popular&context_type=search<\/a><\/h6>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Are you looking for ways to impress a new flame in the bedroom? Or simply trying to reignite that old spark with your partner. Whatever the reason for your sex life rejuvenation, here are 5 simple tips you need to try to turn up the heat. 1. Naked Time Seems like an obvious one, but…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":25389,"featured_media":145733,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":true},"categories":[1805],"tags":[8016,8775,8399,15848,10634,8282,9003],"thb-sponsors":[],"class_list":["post-145732","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationships","tag-dating","tag-love","tag-relationships","tag-rom","tag-romance","tag-sex","tag-sex-life"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n5 Techniques You Need To Try To Spice Up Your Sex Life - Society19 UK<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Is your sex life constantly sending you to sleep? Reignite that sexy spark with 5 hot tips that will be sure to put the heat back into the bedroom.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/techniques-you-need-to-try-to-spice-up-your-sex-life\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_GB\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"5 Techniques You Need To Try To Spice Up Your Sex Life - Society19 UK\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Is your sex life constantly sending you to sleep? Reignite that sexy spark with 5 hot tips that will be sure to put the heat back into the bedroom.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/techniques-you-need-to-try-to-spice-up-your-sex-life\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Society19 UK\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:publisher\" content=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/TheSociety19\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2026-03-21T18:40:18+00:00\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"Ellen Walker\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:image\" content=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.society19.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2019\/05\/image-2019-05-09-1.png?fit=%2C&ssl=1\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:creator\" content=\"@theSOCIETY19\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:site\" content=\"@theSOCIETY19\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\\\/\\\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.society19.com\\\/uk\\\/techniques-you-need-to-try-to-spice-up-your-sex-life\\\/#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.society19.com\\\/uk\\\/techniques-you-need-to-try-to-spice-up-your-sex-life\\\/\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"Ellen Walker\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.society19.com\\\/uk\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/person\\\/bde229b9e15c8beb2ccafe05ada5a749\"},\"headline\":\"5 Techniques You Need To Try To Spice Up Your Sex Life\",\"datePublished\":\"2026-03-21T18:40:18+00:00\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.society19.com\\\/uk\\\/techniques-you-need-to-try-to-spice-up-your-sex-life\\\/\"},\"wordCount\":655,\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.society19.com\\\/uk\\\/techniques-you-need-to-try-to-spice-up-your-sex-life\\\/#primaryimage\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/i0.wp.com\\\/www.society19.com\\\/uk\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/sites\\\/5\\\/2019\\\/05\\\/image-2019-05-09-1.png?fit=%2C&ssl=1\",\"keywords\":[\"dating\",\"love\",\"relationships\",\"Rom\",\"romance\",\"Sex\",\"sex life\"],\"articleSection\":[\"Relationships\"],\"inLanguage\":\"en-GB\"},{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.society19.com\\\/uk\\\/techniques-you-need-to-try-to-spice-up-your-sex-life\\\/\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.society19.com\\\/uk\\\/techniques-you-need-to-try-to-spice-up-your-sex-life\\\/\",\"name\":\"5 Techniques You Need To Try To Spice Up Your Sex Life - Society19 UK\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.society19.com\\\/uk\\\/#website\"},\"primaryImageOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.society19.com\\\/uk\\\/techniques-you-need-to-try-to-spice-up-your-sex-life\\\/#primaryimage\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.society19.com\\\/uk\\\/techniques-you-need-to-try-to-spice-up-your-sex-life\\\/#primaryimage\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/i0.wp.com\\\/www.society19.com\\\/uk\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/sites\\\/5\\\/2019\\\/05\\\/image-2019-05-09-1.png?fit=%2C&ssl=1\",\"datePublished\":\"2026-03-21T18:40:18+00:00\",\"author\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.society19.com\\\/uk\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/person\\\/bde229b9e15c8beb2ccafe05ada5a749\"},\"description\":\"Is your sex life constantly sending you to sleep? Reignite that sexy spark with 5 hot tips that will be sure to put the heat back into the bedroom.\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-GB\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\\\/\\\/www.society19.com\\\/uk\\\/techniques-you-need-to-try-to-spice-up-your-sex-life\\\/\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-GB\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.society19.com\\\/uk\\\/techniques-you-need-to-try-to-spice-up-your-sex-life\\\/#primaryimage\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/i0.wp.com\\\/www.society19.com\\\/uk\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/sites\\\/5\\\/2019\\\/05\\\/image-2019-05-09-1.png?fit=%2C&ssl=1\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/i0.wp.com\\\/www.society19.com\\\/uk\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/sites\\\/5\\\/2019\\\/05\\\/image-2019-05-09-1.png?fit=%2C&ssl=1\",\"caption\":\"5 Techniques You Need To Try To Spice Up Your Sex Life\"},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.society19.com\\\/uk\\\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.society19.com\\\/uk\\\/\",\"name\":\"Society19 UK\",\"description\":\"\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"SearchAction\",\"target\":{\"@type\":\"EntryPoint\",\"urlTemplate\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.society19.com\\\/uk\\\/?s={search_term_string}\"},\"query-input\":{\"@type\":\"PropertyValueSpecification\",\"valueRequired\":true,\"valueName\":\"search_term_string\"}}],\"inLanguage\":\"en-GB\"},{\"@type\":\"Person\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.society19.com\\\/uk\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/person\\\/bde229b9e15c8beb2ccafe05ada5a749\",\"name\":\"Ellen Walker\",\"image\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-GB\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/secure.gravatar.com\\\/avatar\\\/2f84ac41b6e4010aed962a57166aba852b3e2a2baee4cdf89040a78136df6404?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/secure.gravatar.com\\\/avatar\\\/2f84ac41b6e4010aed962a57166aba852b3e2a2baee4cdf89040a78136df6404?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/secure.gravatar.com\\\/avatar\\\/2f84ac41b6e4010aed962a57166aba852b3e2a2baee4cdf89040a78136df6404?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"caption\":\"Ellen Walker\"},\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.society19.com\\\/uk\\\/author\\\/ellenwalker95hotmail-co-uk\\\/\"}]}<\/script>\n<!-- \/ Yoast SEO plugin. -->","yoast_head_json":{"title":"5 Techniques You Need To Try To Spice Up Your Sex Life - Society19 UK","description":"Is your sex life constantly sending you to sleep? Reignite that sexy spark with 5 hot tips that will be sure to put the heat back into the bedroom.","robots":{"index":"index","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"canonical":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/techniques-you-need-to-try-to-spice-up-your-sex-life\/","og_locale":"en_GB","og_type":"article","og_title":"5 Techniques You Need To Try To Spice Up Your Sex Life - Society19 UK","og_description":"Is your sex life constantly sending you to sleep? Reignite that sexy spark with 5 hot tips that will be sure to put the heat back into the bedroom.","og_url":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/techniques-you-need-to-try-to-spice-up-your-sex-life\/","og_site_name":"Society19 UK","article_publisher":"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/TheSociety19\/","article_published_time":"2026-03-21T18:40:18+00:00","author":"Ellen Walker","twitter_card":"summary_large_image","twitter_image":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.society19.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2019\/05\/image-2019-05-09-1.png?fit=%2C&ssl=1","twitter_creator":"@theSOCIETY19","twitter_site":"@theSOCIETY19","schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/techniques-you-need-to-try-to-spice-up-your-sex-life\/#article","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/techniques-you-need-to-try-to-spice-up-your-sex-life\/"},"author":{"name":"Ellen Walker","@id":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/#\/schema\/person\/bde229b9e15c8beb2ccafe05ada5a749"},"headline":"5 Techniques You Need To Try To Spice Up Your Sex Life","datePublished":"2026-03-21T18:40:18+00:00","mainEntityOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/techniques-you-need-to-try-to-spice-up-your-sex-life\/"},"wordCount":655,"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/techniques-you-need-to-try-to-spice-up-your-sex-life\/#primaryimage"},"thumbnailUrl":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.society19.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2019\/05\/image-2019-05-09-1.png?fit=%2C&ssl=1","keywords":["dating","love","relationships","Rom","romance","Sex","sex life"],"articleSection":["Relationships"],"inLanguage":"en-GB"},{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/techniques-you-need-to-try-to-spice-up-your-sex-life\/","url":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/techniques-you-need-to-try-to-spice-up-your-sex-life\/","name":"5 Techniques You Need To Try To Spice Up Your Sex Life - Society19 UK","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/#website"},"primaryImageOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/techniques-you-need-to-try-to-spice-up-your-sex-life\/#primaryimage"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/techniques-you-need-to-try-to-spice-up-your-sex-life\/#primaryimage"},"thumbnailUrl":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.society19.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2019\/05\/image-2019-05-09-1.png?fit=%2C&ssl=1","datePublished":"2026-03-21T18:40:18+00:00","author":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/#\/schema\/person\/bde229b9e15c8beb2ccafe05ada5a749"},"description":"Is your sex life constantly sending you to sleep? Reignite that sexy spark with 5 hot tips that will be sure to put the heat back into the bedroom.","inLanguage":"en-GB","potentialAction":[{"@type":"ReadAction","target":["https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/techniques-you-need-to-try-to-spice-up-your-sex-life\/"]}]},{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-GB","@id":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/techniques-you-need-to-try-to-spice-up-your-sex-life\/#primaryimage","url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.society19.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2019\/05\/image-2019-05-09-1.png?fit=%2C&ssl=1","contentUrl":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.society19.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2019\/05\/image-2019-05-09-1.png?fit=%2C&ssl=1","caption":"5 Techniques You Need To Try To Spice Up Your Sex Life"},{"@type":"WebSite","@id":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/#website","url":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/","name":"Society19 UK","description":"","potentialAction":[{"@type":"SearchAction","target":{"@type":"EntryPoint","urlTemplate":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/?s={search_term_string}"},"query-input":{"@type":"PropertyValueSpecification","valueRequired":true,"valueName":"search_term_string"}}],"inLanguage":"en-GB"},{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/#\/schema\/person\/bde229b9e15c8beb2ccafe05ada5a749","name":"Ellen Walker","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-GB","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2f84ac41b6e4010aed962a57166aba852b3e2a2baee4cdf89040a78136df6404?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2f84ac41b6e4010aed962a57166aba852b3e2a2baee4cdf89040a78136df6404?s=96&d=mm&r=g","contentUrl":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/2f84ac41b6e4010aed962a57166aba852b3e2a2baee4cdf89040a78136df6404?s=96&d=mm&r=g","caption":"Ellen Walker"},"url":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/author\/ellenwalker95hotmail-co-uk\/"}]}},"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.society19.com\/uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2019\/05\/image-2019-05-09-1.png?fit=%2C&ssl=1","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p8vdom-BUw","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/145732","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25389"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=145732"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/145732\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":156140,"href":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/145732\/revisions\/156140"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/145733"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=145732"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=145732"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=145732"},{"taxonomy":"thb-sponsors","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/thb-sponsors?post=145732"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}