{"id":145544,"date":"2019-05-16T08:00:23","date_gmt":"2019-05-16T07:00:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/?p=145544"},"modified":"2019-05-15T22:13:15","modified_gmt":"2019-05-15T21:13:15","slug":"signs-you-are-the-queen-of-pettiness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/signs-you-are-the-queen-of-pettiness\/","title":{"rendered":"Signs You Are The Queen Of Pettiness"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">So we can all be a little on the petty side sometimes, but how do you truly know when you&#8217;ve taken it too far? When is it time for you to get that crown out and accept that you&#8217;ve smashed being a drama? Here are five signs you are the queen of being petty, and if you wish to be, here is how!<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:259}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span data-contrast=\"auto\">You constantly look for the bad.<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">If someone has done you wrong, and you forgive them. That is great! But if you&#8217;ve forgiven them and secretly, you&#8217;re still searching for those small problems that aren&#8217;t there. You&#8217;re on step 1! This could be anything. Maybe your bestie cancelled on you, then hung out with someone else. Ridiculous right? But, why still be mad. If you\u2019re trying to change your outlook, then maybe learn to take things light-heartedly. Don\u2019t sweat the small stuff because in the end, it won\u2019t matter. <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:259}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span data-contrast=\"auto\">You\u2019ll tell other people you\u2019re mad at someone, rather than telling the actual person. <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233279&quot;:true,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:259}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Sometimes we get mad, but communication is the only way that you can clear the air. If you&#8217;re a petty queen you will OWN this, but if you\u2019re trying to change your ways. Buckle your seat belt, swallow your pride and tell them why you\u2019re mad, and sort it out. You\u2019ll have more problems failing to say how you feel to the right person <\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">I.e<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u00a0the problem, because you\u2019ll create more problem. BE THE BIGGER PERSON!<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:259}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u00a0Rolling your eyes is just part of your everyday routine now.<\/span><\/h2>\n<h2><span data-contrast=\"auto\">People are stressful and rolling your eyes is something that gets your through the hard and long days, I get it. But if your friend is talking and you can barely focus on the conversation without rolling your eyes, then GIRL, you\u2019re the QUEEN of pettiness. Again, own it. Don\u2019t let anyone tell you it\u2019s not okay.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:259}\">\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">You\u2019re constantly screenshot everything for EVIDENCE! <\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Get them screenshots in! This isn\u2019t exactly the most major thing, but it is an essential part of being the queen of pettiness. Oh, she said something about your other\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">friend?<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u00a0SCREENSHOT. He\u2019s flirting with you, but he\u2019s got a\u00a0<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">girlfriend?<\/span><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u00a0SCREENSHOT. Prep yourself girl, you can be helping those fellow people. Or creating a little bit of drama for your own entertainment!\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:259}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span data-contrast=\"auto\">\u00a0You use social media to throw shade.<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233279&quot;:true,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:259}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">This relates to the lack of communication thing, but it will only worsen the situation for you. Be the bigger person maybe in this situation and don\u2019t cover your social media with it! It makes you look like a bad person, and queen or not, this will great a bad perception of you. You want to be petty and a little peaceful, you can\u2019t be the person in between all the memes on Facebook or Instagram complaining. <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:259}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span data-contrast=\"auto\">You encourage others to be petty with you. <\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;134233279&quot;:true,&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:259}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Lastly, but not least. Encouraging people isn\u2019t entirely a bad thing, as some people sweat stuff and they have no idea how to communicate it so sometimes encouraging them to talk about it even if it\u2019s negatively but don\u2019t MAKE people be petty, If you are, own it. Be the queen. But don\u2019t make other people stoop to your level, you got this. You\u2019re the queen, and a queen doesn\u2019t need an army to fight her battles. Especially not when she is the petty one!\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:259}\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span data-contrast=\"auto\">Moral of the story is if you love to be a little petty then continue, but if you can relate to this and it\u2019s made you a little aware and you\u2019re not okay with it. Change it! Be the opposite to all these things, but maybe keep the eye roll. Sometimes people are stupid.\u00a0<\/span><span data-ccp-props=\"{&quot;201341983&quot;:0,&quot;335559739&quot;:160,&quot;335559740&quot;:259}\"> Good luck in your pettiness people, and I hope that this directs you on either how to change your pettiness or maximize that pettiness to 100. Pettiness could be the way forward,\u00a0 right?<\/span><\/h3>\n<h6>Featured Image Source: http:\/\/www.betintl.co.uk\/<\/h6>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So we can all be a little on the petty side sometimes, but how do you truly know when you&#8217;ve taken it too far? When is it time for you to get that crown out and accept that you&#8217;ve smashed being a drama? 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