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Playing mind games isn\u2019t the most ideal method when you\u2019re considering getting into a serious relationship, as it can come across manipulative if handled with zero<\/em> finesse. However, there\u2019s irrefutably a psychological tug-of-war game at play when it comes to dating. Since we are all more than capable of pulling off this finesse, below are 10 effective reverse psychology tips and tricks to sufficiently, and harmlessly, season your everyday situationships and relationships.<\/p>\n

1. Be Elusive<\/h2>\n

It\u2019s only human to crave a relationship with someone who you can share every aspect of your life with, from work worries to random food cravings. But instead of giving too much away at the drop of a hat, it\u2019s time to wear your mask and give them the chance to put in work. Don\u2019t lay everything out on the table and don\u2019t be suspiciously available every time they ask to see you. This reverse psychology method works because you\u2019re not suffocating them relentlessly with your everyday happenings. Rather, by maintaining this mystique, you\u2019re allowing them to want<\/em> to initiate conversation, heightening their curiosity and interest in you, your whereabouts and plans. You\u2019re displaying that you have a stable life with or without them – and who doesn\u2019t<\/em> like a well-put together person?<\/p>\n

2. Complain For Compliments<\/h2>\n

This looks strange at first glance, but it\u2019s highly likely that we\u2019re all familiar with this reverse psychology trick. If you want to receive a compliment about your hair or outfit, for example, then just complain about it! Your partner will most likely disagree and assure you that you look fine and even throw in a couple other compliments to convince you otherwise.<\/p>\n

3. Stop Being So Submissive<\/h2>\n

Yes, the small gestures are sweet, but don\u2019t be so compliant and giddy over easily attainable things, such as them seeing you for a couple of hours after work. For this particular method, you need to establish your independence instead of being too tame and accommodating. Don\u2019t just settle and sit around for plans to be made by them<\/em>, be bold and assertive by organising your own plans and fitting them into your<\/em> schedule. Remember, you\u2019re just as important as them, so don\u2019t be easily swayed or controlled by their movements.<\/p>\n

4. Give Them Space<\/h2>\n

Relax, you can still breathe without knowing their every move. As per the last method, don\u2019t be that dependent person whose heart skips a beat when they finally reply to your text. Give your partner space, that way you\u2019ll both miss each other and have more to share when you next see or speak to each other. To achieve this desired closeness and intimacy, the reverse psychology here requires the opposite, which is to give each other some space and distance.<\/p>\n

5. Work On Yourself, For Yourself<\/h2>\n

We\u2019re so used to changing up our routines for our love interests that we neglect our own needs. There\u2019s always time to work on yourself for<\/em> yourself. That way, you\u2019ll show that you\u2019re an ambitious person with your personal agenda to work towards. Get involved in fitness, cooking, arts and all kinds of alternative hobbies to help enrich yourself as a person.<\/p>\n

6. Play Nice Even When They\u2019re Not<\/h2>\n

Sure, playing mind games isn\u2019t exactly the sincerest way to get what you want out of a relationship, but it\u2019s better than constant bickering or making emotional threats towards your partner. We\u2019re used to resorting to emotional blackmail, threats and unnecessary drama to get our way or maintain the upper hand, but with this tip, you don\u2019t need to do that anymore. Be the bigger person and play nice, especially when they\u2019re being unreasonably cruel as they\u2019ll soon come to their senses and realise they were being irrational in comparison to your cool self. Works like a charm.<\/p>\n

7. Be Unpredictable<\/h2>\n

People typically favour more spontaneous, fun times in relationships. Why else do you think people stick around for far too long in toxic, hot-and-cold relationships? Predictability is boring \u2013 no one wants a dull, monotonous relationship with their partner. So, if you\u2019re looking to have someone be more intrigued and interested in you \u2013 the trick here is to be bold and unpredictable. Organise fun outings, look for more quirky activities to do, and be daring.<\/p>\n

8. Challenge Them<\/h2>\n

This is a fun reverse psychology trick to use while flirting. All you need to do is to simply state that you don\u2019t believe they\u2019re capable of delivering whatever you\u2019ve challenged them to. For example, if you say that you don\u2019t think they can arrive on time for your next date, they\u2019re more likely to want to prove you wrong and end up doing exactly what you want \u2013 which is for them to arrive on time for your next date. Just make bets and challenges to spice things up and have them unintentionally do what you want them to do!<\/p>\n

9. Goodbye Green-Eyed Monster<\/h2>\n

Being jealous is not a part of this equation. If you show too much jealousy and possessiveness, that will probably steer your partner away \u2013 though hints of it can<\/em> be cute. The stronger, overprotective emotions are usually deemed unattractive and can make a relationship quickly turn sour. You\u2019re a catch, so tame that green-eyed monster and remind yourself not to get heavily worked up over things.<\/p>\n

10. Don\u2019t Read This<\/h2>\n

As expected, you read this. This is exactly the simple reverse psychology associated with our human nature. We\u2019re inclined to reject being told what to do and attempt to do the very opposite, out of curiosity or defiance. If you tell someone \u2018not<\/em> to worry\u2019 or to \u2018not<\/em> get jealous\u2019, they will likely overthink things and end up getting worried or jealous.<\/p>\n

What reverse psychology tricks have you used before? Let us know below!<\/h3>\n
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