Are you an indecisive person? Not sure? Well put it this way, did you or did you not spend a few seconds hovering your thumb or cursor over this title before clicking? I’m just kidding, but let me tell you, I know it’s not easy. I’m one of those poor indecisive souls too; unable to make any decision at all sometimes because the idea of getting it wrong is truly mortifying. Here are 15 signs that you’re an indecisive person too.<\/p>\n
How on earth are you supposed to know how you’ll feel in a few months time? Even a few weeks in advance is too much pressure.<\/p>\n
It’s not about needing to make the right call, it’s the paralysing fear that you’ll make the wrong one.<\/p>\n
It doesn’t matter if you got your affairs in order the night before, there’s just no guarantee you’ll feel the same way the next morning. I must change my outfit at least twelve times every morning before I leave for uni or work; I’m almost habitually late and am still never satisfied with my decisions.<\/p>\n
I hate this about myself but I just can’t help it. I’ll deliberate over the mac and cheese with kale or the veggie club sandwich with soup for fifteen minutes, decide on the former, and then see a vegan Philly cheese steak with chips go to another table. I literally screech my chair back and run to the kitchen every time.<\/p>\n
Usually it’ll arrive and I’ll declare gloomily that I should have gone fore the mac and cheese.<\/p>\n
You’ll never know, just accept that now.<\/p>\n
It doesn’t really make a difference though, you’re just waiting for someone else to make the decision for you.<\/p>\n
How can you ask such a broad question like that? Do these people write down their answers beforehand just to make you look bad?<\/p>\n
It’s not a bad reflection on you, you just can’t bear the idea of making the wrong call.\u00a0 Even the greatest leaders can make the wrong call – they do it all the time in fact, it’s just that they don’t give as much of a damn as you.<\/p>\n
It’s a shame because you shouldn’t ever question what you’re capable of, but it definitely is a factor that weighs heavily upon the indecisive person’s ability to lead and feel worthy of influencing others.<\/p>\n
Wasn’t it Shakespeare who said “our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we oft might win, by fearing to attempt”<\/em>?<\/p>\n Pressure. Alleviated. Pain. Gone.<\/p>\n Hopefully.<\/p>\n It’s not like you’re thinking it about everyone who makes decisions for you, you just worry that people will think it about you<\/em> when you<\/em> do it.<\/p>\n Are you an indecisive person? Not sure? Well put it this way, did you or did you not spend a few seconds hovering your thumb or cursor over this title before clicking? I’m just kidding, but let me tell you, I know it’s not easy. I’m one of those poor indecisive souls too; unable to…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":24998,"featured_media":138792,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":true},"categories":[1801],"tags":[16498,16499,16500,10072,16501,16502,16503,16504],"thb-sponsors":[],"class_list":["post-138791","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-in-real-world","tag-15-signs-youre-an-indecisive-person","tag-being-an-indecisive-person","tag-how-to-tell-whether-youre-an-indecisive-person-or-not","tag-in","tag-indecisiveness","tag-the-struggles-of-being-indecisive","tag-the-woes-of-being-indeci","tag-the-woes-of-being-indecisive"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n14. You’re Happier To Go With Someone Else’s Decision<\/h2>\n
15. But You Know That, Given Your Own Time, You’ll Get There Eventually<\/h2>\n
15. You Wish You Were More Assertive But Don’t Want To Seem Obtuse!<\/h2>\n
Have you any of your own examples of being an indecisive person? Let us know in the comments section below!<\/h3>\n
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