Unfortunately, when we start to have a major crush on someone we can often start believing that the feeling is mutual when in reality it\u2019s not! So, what do we do when we\u2019ve spent so much time questioning our devotion and feelings to the point that it becomes confusing and more of a negative than an exciting thing? After all, romance is supposed to be filled with exciting possibilities, which is why we have put a list together of ten signs that you are being lead on, so you can tell if that person of interest is really into you or not.<\/p>\n
This one\u2019s frustrating, especially in the new era of online messaging with the ability to track if someone\u2019s read your message. So, you\u2019ve decided to start talking to that person online and you\u2019re unsure about whether they are really flirting with you or not. If you\u2019re getting short replies, left on seen or having it not seen at all without a reply then the signs that you are being lead on by that person is extremely likely. If the person you\u2019re into is relatively confident then they will make the mutual effort in having a conversation with you online and will make the time. If they don\u2019t and just keep dodging your messages or leave blunt replies, then it\u2019s best just to trash the conversation altogether and move on.<\/p>\n
If you hang around the person you like often whether it\u2019s in your social circle or in the workplace then they will make you feel like you are there. There\u2019s no use in chasing after somebody who doesn\u2019t make the effort to talk to you to a point where you feel left out or ignored. On certain days they\u2019ll make you feel like you are a part of the circle and then on most days, they make you feel ignored. This is one of the main signs that you are being lead on. If this happens then you are definitely being lead on. If they\u2019re really that into you, they\u2019ll make you feel good all of the time and not when they pick and choose. That means you\u2019ve got to move on and find someone willing to make as much effort as you would.<\/p>\n
Sometimes people like to play games and try to get as much attention from people as they can to boost their ego, and unfortunately, that might be your person of interest. Once they grasp that you\u2019re interested in them then they may be the type to make you jealous just for the fun of it. These are the kind of people you need to avoid because it rarely ends well. If they tell you that they\u2019re interested and ending up dating other people in the process, then the likelihood is, is that they really aren\u2019t interested. They\u2019re just using you as a pawn in another shelf of mind games to impress their friends and boost their ego\u2019s. Avoid these people at all costs and move on, fast!<\/p>\n
If your crush sleeps around, then it\u2019s best to get out of what you\u2019re feeling about that person right now because it\u2019s definitely not meant to be. The type to sleep around don\u2019t have an interest in long-term relationships and no matter what you can provide him\/her it will never be enough until they can change. That type of change takes a long time! It\u2019s really not worth it to be wasting your time on someone who can\u2019t stay loyal or just wants \u2018fun\u2019, you deserve better and better will come, but for now just leave it and move on!<\/p>\n
Unfortunately, when we want our friends to meet the person we keep on talking about, things can become complicated when it happens. Your person of interest can\u2019t help themselves and they flirt with your friends, your friends take it well and you\u2019re the on the receiving end and the one that\u2019s feeling bad at the end of the day. Not only is this one of the signs you are being lead on,\u00a0 this could cause friction in friendships. It gives your person of interest a kick that satisfies their ego, especially if they know you have a crush on them. In this case, these are signs that you are being lead on. They know the chaos it will cause and unfortunately there are people in this world that attract drama everywhere they go because they purposely create it. Leave your person of interest and take your friends with you as far away from him\/her as you can before they cause any more damage!<\/p>\n
What happens if you find out your crush is in a relationship or you already know but try your best anyway? Well, there\u2019s only one answer for these two questions and that is that it\u2019s extremely unlikely that you\u2019re ever going to get a chance if they are already attending to somebody else. At the end of the day, you are not their first choice and you are worth more than to be left as a second choice. Nobody wants to be the \u2018other woman\u2019 or in other cases the \u2018other man\u2019. Its time swallow your feelings and move on to somebody who is single because you might just waste precious time waiting around for that other person to become single again if they ever do\u2026<\/p>\n
So, you\u2019ve been seeing somebody on and off for a few months now, only seeing them every so often? Well, that\u2019s probably because they only see you as a little bit of \u2018fun\u2019 when they get horny or bored. In the process, you\u2019re sitting there thinking about them while weeks are passing by without hardly talking to them or seeing them. This is when it\u2019s time to realise that it\u2019s not going to work out because if they were really into you, they\u2019d be making a whole lot more effort than just once every few months. The switch should always be turned on, so to avoid being lead on any longer, switch it off for him\/her and find someone who\u2019s worth your time!<\/p>\n
One of the\u00a0signs that you are being lead on is secrecy! There\u2019s nothing worse than somebody that makes you feel like a stranger in public and a best friend in person. Living in two different worlds is confusing and no one wants to feel that way, so drop that immediately! If they really like you then they will be the same way towards you in public than how they are in private and won\u2019t dodge you. That means they are ashamed about something when there is no need to feel that way in the first place. It\u2019s best just to move on and dodge them in public and in private!<\/p>\n
You\u2019ve managed to make plans with your person of interest and it\u2019s all going well until you turn up and then you wait, and they don\u2019t show up. This is a huge red flag and one of many signs that you are being lead on. Only half an hour into when you\u2019re supposed to meet them do they text saying they can\u2019t make it because they just don\u2019t feel like it anymore or they\u2019re going to see one of their other friends. This can make you feel bad and of course there might be an actual reason why they can\u2019t make it, but if they keep on doing it to you repeatedly and making up excuses then you\u2019re better of finding someone else who\u2019ll mean what they say and say what they mean to avoid the signs that your are being lead on.<\/p>\n
Something else to look out for is the whole giving up and coming back thing that people usually do when they realise that you\u2019re getting over them. They think they have you wrapped around their finger whilst you\u2019ve found a way to get loose and move on. So, they come back to you and say that there think there could be a future there when really, they just like the attention and nothing more. You have everything to give while they don\u2019t, which is why when this happens it\u2019s best to say no because it\u2019s unlikely a meaningful relationship will be the outcome!<\/p>\n
Unfortunately, when we start to have a major crush on someone we can often start believing that the feeling is mutual when in reality it\u2019s not! So, what do we do when we\u2019ve spent so much time questioning our devotion and feelings to the point that it becomes confusing and more of a negative than…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":24496,"featured_media":135199,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":true},"categories":[1805],"tags":[12033,9048,9109,12195],"thb-sponsors":[],"class_list":["post-135194","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationships","tag-flirting","tag-fuck-boys","tag-heart-break","tag-unhealthy-relationships"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n