{"id":134892,"date":"2023-11-24T11:50:25","date_gmt":"2023-11-24T11:50:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/?p=134892"},"modified":"2023-11-24T11:50:28","modified_gmt":"2023-11-24T11:50:28","slug":"how-to-act-toward-wait-staff","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/how-to-act-toward-wait-staff\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Act Toward Wait Staff: From Someone Who Works In A Pub"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve been working in pubs since I turned 18 and have had some crazy experiences with how customers think it is okay to treat waiting staff. Pub work is fun and the people you meet are always so interesting, from the staff to the customers. But during the stresses of working in a constantly moving environment, sometimes manners slip and customers can be less than polite, so here is how to act towards wait staff.<\/p>\n<h2>1. Don\u2019t Get Angry If We Refuse To Serve You<\/h2>\n<p>The law requires bartenders to not serve any customer is drunk. We can be fired and fined for serving drunk customers. For us your brother\u2019s stag do isn\u2019t as important as our job.<\/p>\n<h2>2. If I ID You, I\u2019m Not Trying To Insult You \u2013 It\u2019s The Law<\/h2>\n<p>Regularly, working in university cities you need to ID the customers coming to the bar. This usually goes one of two ways, either the customer will be insulted that you think they don\u2019t look 18. Or the customer will laugh and show you their ID. The issue here is that it isn\u2019t whether the customer looks 18, it\u2019s whether the customer looks 21 or even 25. Unfortunately, not maybe 20-year olds look 25. So, we will ID you.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Don\u2019t Wave Your Hands Or Click At Me<\/h2>\n<p>When serving a busy bar, bartenders try to clock who arrived when. Sometimes we get it wrong, if we do just tell us and we\u2019ll serve you next. Don\u2019t click your fingers at us or wave in our faces, that just makes us less likely to serve you.<\/p>\n<h2>4. Please Don\u2019t Vomit On The Floor<\/h2>\n<p>If you do get drunk and feel the vomit rising. Then please go to the bathroom or outside. Pubs don\u2019t have cleaners, we have a \u2018body fluid kit\u2019 and who has to clean the vomit up will come down to a sick game of rock, paper scissors.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Be Aware That We only Have Two Arms<\/h2>\n<p>Plates can be hot, they\u2019ve been under the hot lights and have come straight from ovens and pans. Sometimes this means you can only carry one at a time, or if we carry three we might not have them best placed. If this is the case, then give us a little bit of extra time to place the orders down. Similarly, it isn\u2019t always possible to clear a table in one go. So please be patient, you will get your meal.<\/p>\n<h2>6. If the Pub Is Busy, Things Will Take Longer<\/h2>\n<p>The busier the pub, usually the more popular it is. This is a good thing, but does also mean that service might be a bit slower. If there are 10 orders in, then your food will take longer than 15 minutes. Similarly, getting served or your drinks arriving might take longer. You will get your food and drinks, but timings do change depending on the shift.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Be Polite<\/h2>\n<p>Politeness goes a long way in service jobs. If a customer is polite and chatty with me, then I might work harder to give them the best experience. I am a chatty individual and will happily talk to your son about his application to university or your daughter\u2019s dream of joining the army. If you\u2019re rude to me, I will still serve you perfectly well, but I will only serve when necessary.<\/p>\n<h2>8. If We Make A Mistake, Tell Us.<\/h2>\n<p>Mistakes happen. Usually they\u2019re human error and that okay. In a pub, if a mistake happens we are usually more than happy to rectify it immediately. We are less happy to fix the issue once you\u2019ve eaten the meal that you had a complaint against. We don\u2019t want you to have an experience, but it\u2019s very difficult to understand that the potatoes were cold if you\u2019ve already eaten them.<\/p>\n<h2>If you have any more ways to treat waiting staff, let us know below!<\/h2>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019ve been working in pubs since I turned 18 and have had some crazy experiences with how customers think it is okay to treat waiting staff. Pub work is fun and the people you meet are always so interesting, from the staff to the customers. 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