{"id":132811,"date":"2018-07-23T22:06:23","date_gmt":"2018-07-23T21:06:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/?p=132811"},"modified":"2018-12-11T16:11:17","modified_gmt":"2018-12-11T16:11:17","slug":"things-to-never-say-to-a-guy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/things-to-never-say-to-a-guy\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Things To Never Say To A Guy That Aren&#8217;t Obvious At All"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/ukinterns.society19.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/couple.jpg\" class=\"mfp-image\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2018Why is your beard so patchy?\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Asking a man why his beard is patchy is like asking him why he can\u2019t grow hair. People grow in different ways, and some beards come in patchy. It\u2019s just life and instead of asking why it\u2019s patchy, buy him some beard oil.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2018You\u2019re like a brother to me\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Of course, maybe he is a brother or a step brother, but generally telling a man he\u2019s like a brother to you is telling him that he is in the \u2018friend zone\u2019 (something that is totally made up, but men still believe exists).<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2018You\u2019re no fun\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This isn\u2019t nice to say to anybody. Telling someone they are not fun, is like telling them you don\u2019t like spending time with them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2018Aren\u2019t you paying?\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This is a very aged idea, men shouldn\u2019t have to pay for dinner just because of their gender. Nowadays, it is and should be more common for people to split the bill or even for the women to offer to pay. If you pay, it shows you\u2019re very interested in the relationship and actually interested in spending time with your partner.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2018Why can\u2019t you be more like so-and-so\u2019s boyfriend?\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>People are different, and your partner will be a different person from your friend\u2019s partner. If you want your partner to be different, then they won\u2019t be the same person. If you\u2019re saying this then you might want to question your relationship. Your partner is just being him\/herself and that\u2019s all you can ask for.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2018I tell my best friend everything.\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Somethings should be private in a relationship and shouldn\u2019t be spread throughout your friends. If you are telling other people everything, then it isn\u2019t just you and your partner in the relationship. You need to consider why you are telling your friends stuff and figure out where you are in your relationship.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2018You\u2019re quite hairy?\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>By saying this to him, you\u2019re just stating a fact. You aren\u2019t being constructing and aren\u2019t helping anything. If you\u2019re a fan of his hair, then tell him. If you aren\u2019t, then tell him that too. But in a nice, constructive way that isn\u2019t just an attack on his appearance.<\/p>\n<h6 style=\"text-align: center\">\n<\/h6>\n<p><strong>\u2018Ever thought you might be gay?\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Every person nowadays questions their own sexuality and I\u2019m sure he has questioned it too. You might not know his past or even his exact sexual preference and asking him in this way isn\u2019t going to answer any questions for either of you. Again, this is a time where you need to be constructive and sensitive and think about how you would like to be asked about your sexual orientation.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u2018Have you not been with many women?\u2019<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This comment again could be an attack. By saying this, you are insinuating that he maybe isn\u2019t the best boyfriend or sexual partner. Of course, if this is the case, then talk to him. Just tell him what you like and how he can achieve it. You don\u2019t need to insult him to get what you want.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Anything you wouldn\u2019t like being said to you<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Men and women are becoming less and less different and with that you should except that anything you wouldn\u2019t like to be said to you, shouldn\u2019t leave your mouth. Men are sensitive, just like women. It\u2019s important to understand that gender boundaries are slowly fizzling away and being feminine or masculine shouldn\u2019t really matter anymore. Just be yourself and be kind to others.<\/p>\n<h2>If there are any other common phrases that get shared between the genders that should be omitted from conversations, then please let us know in the comments below!<\/h2>\n<h2>Featured Image: weheartit<\/h2>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u2018Why is your beard so patchy?\u2019 Asking a man why his beard is patchy is like asking him why he can\u2019t grow hair. People grow in different ways, and some beards come in patchy. It\u2019s just life and instead of asking why it\u2019s patchy, buy him some beard oil. \u2018You\u2019re like a brother to me\u2019&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":24509,"featured_media":132815,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[1805],"tags":[8016],"thb-sponsors":[],"class_list":["post-132811","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationships","tag-dating"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>10 Things To Never Say To A Guy That 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