{"id":132149,"date":"2018-07-12T14:50:47","date_gmt":"2018-07-12T13:50:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/?p=132149"},"modified":"2018-12-11T17:23:41","modified_gmt":"2018-12-11T17:23:41","slug":"signs-hes-not-into-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/signs-hes-not-into-you\/","title":{"rendered":"The 15 Signs He’s Not Into You That You Should Listen To"},"content":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s the one truth we all hate hearing more than anything else: he\u2019s just not into<\/em> you. We hear it on television, read it in books and even tell it to our best friends. Even when everything appears to be going smoothly and everything is fine and dandy, and you can see no logical reason why the person you like wouldn\u2019t be into you. The sad truth is that this can come out of nowhere and end your blossoming relationship very very quickly. I hate to be the one to tell you but when this does happen there\u2019s pretty much nothing you can do when somebody just isn\u2019t into you. Just remember that it is not your fault, even though you will blame yourself to begin with and keep second guessing what you did wrong. The only way to possibly prevent this is to look out for signs he’s not into you.<\/p>\n

At the end of the day it all comes down to that natural spark and attraction that you either have or don\u2019t have with somebody. You can\u2019t force it when it\u2019s not there, so don\u2019t feel too bad if the guy you could see yourself ending up with just isn\u2019t feeling it. The best thing to do is accept it and find that person you deserve, who is into you, and move on. Here are 15 signs he’s not into you that you should listen to, to help prevent yourself from getting hurt.<\/p>\n

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1. You barely talk or don\u2019t talk at all<\/h2>\n

This is an obvious one. If you barely talk or he texts you days later then he really isn\u2019t in to you.<\/p>\n

2. He talks to other women<\/h2>\n

You don\u2019t want to share your man. If he flirts and chats with other girls, and doesn\u2019t let you know what about, then he isn\u2019t that into you. This is one of the most obvious signs he’s not into you.<\/p>\n

3. He doesn\u2019t want to be exclusive<\/h2>\n

If a guy really liked you he would want to be in a committed relationship. If he refuses to be exclusive or avoids the \u2018what are we question\u2019 then he just isn\u2019t that into you.<\/p>\n

4. You haven\u2019t met his friends or family<\/h2>\n

This one is a given. If you are a few months in and haven\u2019t met his friends and family then he isn\u2019t that into you. Don\u2019t think \u2018oh maybe he isn\u2019t ready\u2019 because at this rate he will never be ready.<\/p>\n

5. He tries to change you<\/h2>\n

If a man tries to change you then he clearly doesn\u2019t like you for you and wants you to be somebody else. Say boy-bye to him hun as he isn\u2019t that into you!<\/p>\n

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6. It\u2019s all physical<\/h2>\n

If your relationship is all physical and not emotional then he isn\u2019t that into you. Alarm bells should ring when he avoids a conversation by having sex with you instead. Hold your head up high and kick that boy to the curb; you want an emotional connection not just a physical one.<\/p>\n

7. He booty calls you<\/h2>\n

If you only hear from him late at night, especially after midnight, then you are just a booty call to him and nothing more. You have been put into the friends with benefits zone and there is no escape. He just isn\u2019t that into you. This is definitely one of the signs he’s not into you.<\/p>\n

8. He stands you up<\/h2>\n

If a boy liked you he would not keep standing you up unless there was a truly valid reason. 3 stand ups is 3 strikes and he\u2019s not into you.<\/p>\n

9. He never asks about your day<\/h2>\n

You want a man who asks \u2018how was your day.\u2019 If a boy doesn\u2019t care how you are feeling and doesn\u2019t want to know what you have been up to then he just isn\u2019t that into you babe.<\/p>\n

10. He can\u2019t fit you in<\/h2>\n

If he isn\u2019t desperate to see you and can\u2019t fit you in to his busy schedule then he isnt that into you.<\/p>\n

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11. He doesn\u2019t want to see you one on one<\/h2>\n

If a guy doesn\u2019t want to spend alone time with you and makes sure other people are always around then he isn\u2019t that into you. If you are seeing someone you should want to see them alone: FACT.<\/p>\n

12. He doesn\u2019t flirt with you anymore<\/h2>\n

If a guy is flirting with you and you have friendly banter then he is obviously into you. So when that stops something has changed: he\u2019s not that into you anymore. Sure some guys just aren\u2019t the flirty type but there is always jokes and smiles when you\u2019re happy.<\/p>\n

13. He doesn\u2019t compliment you<\/h2>\n

This is a controversial one as I know some guys just don\u2019t compliment. But if you truly like someone and want them to feel good you will share a compliment here or there. You want the guy you are with to tell you you\u2019re pretty and if he doesn\u2019t then warning bells should ring.<\/p>\n

14. His body language has changed<\/h2>\n

When a guy likes you he might not always tell you with words but his body language will give it away; there will be intimacy. It is easy to miss body language cues but if you notice them and then notice they are missing he has lost interest.<\/p>\n

15. He won\u2019t hold your hand in public<\/h2>\n

If you are in a committed relationship then you hold hands. If a guy won\u2019t hold your hand and show you off then he just isn\u2019t that into you. There are of course other ways to tell he’s not into you, like he might not get jealous or you always call first, but these are the top 15 signs he’s not into you. If you sense any of these things occurring then stand your ground girl and take action because at the end of the day if someone doesn\u2019t like you back they are wasting your time and you should spend that time on someone who likes you the way you are.<\/p>\n

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What are some other signs he’s not into you? Let us know in the comments below!<\/h2>\n

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