{"id":119315,"date":"2017-11-01T17:31:03","date_gmt":"2017-11-01T17:31:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/?p=119315"},"modified":"2018-12-11T18:15:02","modified_gmt":"2018-12-11T18:15:02","slug":"things-to-expect-your-first-time-having-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.society19.com\/uk\/things-to-expect-your-first-time-having-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"11\u00a0Things\u00a0To\u00a0Expect\u00a0Your\u00a0First\u00a0Time\u00a0Having\u00a0Sex"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Ask anyone about their first time; most will laugh or shake their head with an \u2018if only you knew\u2019 look. This is because the first time you have sex can usually come with some learning curves. That being said, it is a part of life. So whether you are 16 or 60, here are 11 things many can expect during first time sex.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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1.\u00a0<\/span>You\u00a0will\u00a0have\u00a0never\u00a0felt\u00a0so\u00a0vulnerable\u00a0in\u00a0your\u00a0life!<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n

This is the first time you\u2019re going to be naked in front of another human being for the first time (most likely). Your mum giving you a bath when you were a toddler is a different kettle of fish! Every insecurity you have with your body will be on full display. There is no way to prepare yourself for this level of nakedness and intimacy. But be comforted by the fact that the other person is in the same boat as you.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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2.\u00a0<\/span>Awkwardness\u2026<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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The fact of the matter is, it doesn\u2019t matter whether you have a six pack or are carrying some holiday weight, whether you are in your prime or mature time of your life, or whether you know your partner like the back of your hand (this is ideal) or you met them 3 hours ago; the first time you have sex is going to feel a bit awkward. Questions such as what piece of clothing shall I remove first?, where shall I put my arm? and how the hell is he going to fit that in there? Are running through your mind. Do you speak or just grunt away in the silence? The answer is, sex isn\u2019t like the movies, and it is unrealistic to think that it is. Just relax and let whatever happens, happen.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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3.\u00a0<\/span>Foreplay\u00a0won\u2019t\u00a0be\u00a0as\u00a0long\u00a0as\u00a0it\u00a0should\u00a0be.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n

Would you run a marathon without warming up first? I should hope not! The same goes for sex too, especially the first time. Your body is about to experience something it never has before, you owe it to yourself to prepare it as much as possible. If like me you had a small window of opportunity whilst the parents were out, it is difficult to relax and take your time. But do the best that you can. Every little helps.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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4.\u00a0<\/span>Putting\u00a0a\u00a0condom\u00a0on\u00a0seriously\u00a0kills\u00a0the\u00a0mood.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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PSHE class tried to prepare you for this moment. It all seemed so simple when sliding the condom over the banana. But this time is no laughing matter. You\u2019re already nervous, so trying to put a slippery balloon thing onto his manhood is not going to help that. The condom could be too small or too big, too slippery or too dry… Next thing you know the mood is dead and your friend isn\u2019t so happy to see you anymore\u2026 But don\u2019t make the mistake of having sex without one! You don\u2019t want the panic of a pregnancy or STI scare.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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5.\u00a0<\/span>You\u2019ll\u00a0have\u00a0no\u00a0idea\u00a0how\u00a0to\u00a0proceed.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n

So you\u2019re in the bedroom, you know what you want to do\u2026now what?! Unfortunately this is the part you can\u2019t plan. Even if you have a plan, your mind is likely to go blank anyway!\u00a0 Just go with the flow and do what feels right.<\/p>\n

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6.\u00a0<\/span>Pain\u00a0is\u00a0likely.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n

Your body is about to go through something it never has before. Let\u2019s be honest, for a girl, sex is invasive. This invasion doesn\u2019t come without feeling a little uncomfortable at the start. However, as your body gets used to the intrusion, you will start to forget about the slight pain and enjoy yourself\u2026 trust us!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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7.\u00a0<\/span>Missionary\u00a0will\u00a0be\u00a0your\u00a0safety\u00a0net.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n
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It\u2019s all well and good going into your first time thinking there will be acrobatics and the Karma Sutra will come to life\u2026 it\u2019s a little unrealistic. You will most likely start in missionary and keep it safe there. If you feel comfortable, by all means try some other intermediate positions\u2026just don\u2019t push your luck or you could come out of your first time with an injury\u2026<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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8.\u00a0<\/span>Blood\u00a0on\u00a0the\u00a0sheets\u00a0is\u00a0totally\u00a0normal.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n

There is a chance that you won\u2019t bleed if your hymen has broken naturally. But most women experience the loss of blood during or after their first time having sex. It shouldn\u2019t be much, just spotting as if it was the first day of your period. If it looks like someone has been murdered in your bed, you need to call the doctor. However, it is important to remember that bleeding is normal, and it isn\u2019t something you need to freak out about \u2013 it just shows the hymen has broken.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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9.\u00a0<\/span>You\u2019ll\u00a0feel\u00a0more\u00a0mature\u00a0afterwards.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Chances are you will feel like a whole new woman after the deed is done, and will immediately want to tell your besties. After all, this was a big event in your life. However, make sure you are away from your partner before you give a play-by-play run down to your friends, it\u2019s only polite.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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10.\u00a0<\/span>Waddling\u00a0is\u00a0a\u00a0likely\u00a0consequence.<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n
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Seriously, this is another normal side effect from losing your V. Your body will need to recover from your activities for a couple of days. Perhaps take a nice, relaxing bath when you are alone. You can recover yourself whilst having some alone time to remember the lovely event that just occurred.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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11.\u00a0<\/span>Pregnancy\u00a0scare!<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/h2>\n
Even if you used all the protection in the world, you will automatically start to panic that you are pregnant. Again, it is normal to be a couple of days late after the new things your body has experienced, but if you are really scared, get your big sister of BFF to buy you a pregnancy test from your local pharmacy. Better to put your mind at rest.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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A few last words of advice. Having sex is a huge deal, so please wait until you are completely ready!<\/p>\n

Do you have any tips for first time sex!? Share in the comments below!<\/h5>\n

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