Are you looking for ways to impress a new flame in the bedroom? Or simply trying to reignite that old spark with your partner. Whatever the reason for your sex life rejuvenation, here are 5 simple tips you need to try to turn up the heat.
1. Naked Time
Seems like an obvious one, but not in the way you think. If you want to improve your sex life together, you need to get comfortable with each other and appreciate each other’s bodies. This way, when it comes to getting in on, you won’t feel uncomfortable or like you don’t know where to start. And no, you don’t just have to stand there naked and awkwardly stare at each-other for this to work, chill out together as normal just…naked. Watch a movie, take a shower, or even order some pizza (just make sure you cover up before you answer the door to the pizza guy).
2) Comfortable In Your Own Skin
What’s the number one key to success in the bedroom? C-O-N-F-I-D-E-N-C-E. If you feel fabulous and comfortable in your own skin, trust me, your partner is going to notice and your sex life is going to improve tenfold. There’s nothing worse than when you’re trying to get in the moment than catching a glimpse of your love handles at the wrong angle. Suddenly, your brain is set to obsessing over your lumpy bits rather than enjoying the moment.
I know it’s difficult advice to follow, but we all need to be more accepting of ourselves and realise that we see ourselves so much more critically than others do. Trust me, your love handles are the last thing your partner will be thinking of when they’re getting hot and heavy with you in the sheets.
3) Get out of the bedroom
Staring at the same four walls then you’re getting it on can get real boring, it also lends to sex getting repetitive which, we all know, can be a real sex life killer. If you’re looking to shake things up a bit, get yourselves outside of the usual spot, whether that’s just the kitchen, or a holiday destination. In all honesty, the destination doesn’t matter so much (so long as you’re not breaking any indecency laws), as long as you’re outside of your comfort zone, you take a leap of faith, your sex life will too.
4) Music makes you lose control
Have you ever watched those steamy movie scenes and wondered why your sex life wasn’t so smooth? Well, whilst real-life sex certainly has its ‘oops’ moments, you can certainly get that cinematic feel in the bedroom by creating a sultry playlist to get you both in the mood. Take it anywhere from Magic Mike to relaxing ocean sounds, whatever gets you feeling relaxed and in the moment. Added bonus, you don’t have to worry about any awkward unwanted sex noises (you know what I’m talking about).
5) Lace it up
If there’s one way to drive your partner wild, it’s new lingerie. You can go full suspender and stockings, or simply a cute matching bralette and panties, simply making that extra effort to seduce them will take your intimate session to a new level. Plus, there’s nothing like new underwear to boost your confidence and bring out your inner Victoria Secret model.