When it comes to having an orgasm, it’s definitely a lot harder for women than it is for men. But, there are many things that can be done to help you achieve the strongest and easiest orgasm. Here are 15 sex tips for girls who are looking to have the best orgasm of their lives!
1. Lube is your new best friend
Whether you get wet or not, using lube is the best way to get things nice and smooth. The more lubrication there is, the more stimulated you can get.
2. Pay attention to your clitoris
It can’t be said enough. Many women don’t understand that a vaginal orgasm isn’t common for most people. Your clitoris is the main source of your orgasms, so pay attention!!
3. Masturbate to learn your own body
You won’t ever be able to understand what you like (or don’t like) if you don’t try masturbating. This is the easiest way to learn what will make you reach your climax.
4. Kegels can lead to stronger orgasms
Kegels are an exercise you can literally do while reading the rest of this article. By contracting the muscles of your pelvic floor, you are strengthening the right spots to make sex feel the best. Having control over these muscles will scientifically make you have a stronger orgasm.
5. Try “edging”
So, when you’re having sex or masturbating, instead of letting yourself have the orgasm, you completely release any touch from your clitoris. After a brief few seconds of stopping, you or your partner will begin massaging again. You do this for as long as you want and the orgasm will be mind-blowing.
6. Exercise will increase your libido
It is a proven fact that exercising helps to increase your libido and will get your sex drive up.
7. Apply heat to your vulva
Whether you take a nice warm bath or you apply a hot compress, you are allowing the blood to flow to your vulva, making your orgasm a lot easier to reach.
8. Practice with vibrators/dildos
Just like masturbating, bringing vibrators and dildos into play is a great way to learn what feels the best. Many women have an easier and stronger orgasm when the vibrations are present. You can also use these toys with a partner which will definitely make things a lot steamier.
9. Switch up the position
Try a position that involved stimulation to your clitoris so you aren’t relying on just vaginal stimulation. This will help to get you to that orgasm faster!
10. Cut back on those cocktails
Drinking will actually lessen the chances of you having an orgasm. So, cut back on the drinks if you feel like your sex drive has been dying out lately.
Do you have any other sex tips for girls to have a stronger and better orgasm!? Share in the comments below!
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Alexandra Smith is majoring in Psychology, with a minor in Creative Writing. In her free time, she enjoys running, hanging out with family friends, and roaming the world with her camera in hand.