Deciding on the right message to send the person you’ve been crushing on can be hard, especially if you’re not too sure if they like you. You don’t want to put them off, and you also want to send them something that they can reply back to. This can land you stuck staring at their name in your phone for hours, just wishing you knew what to say. Don’t worry, though, as this article can save you from this torment – here are flirty text messages to send a guy to start the conversation.
‘Hey, [insert thing here] reminded me of you’
This can be a picture, a meme, a song, a movie, anything! This text is good as it lets them know that you’re thinking about them, and that things around you make them pop into your head. If the thing that reminds you of them is a piece of media, then you can discuss it with them, and if they haven’t seen it and do watch/listen to it, then you know they’re interested. Plus, you can either light-heartedly tease them about why it reminds you of them, or give them a heartfelt compliment.
‘I can’t sleep…want to keep me company?’
When you send the cutie you like a night time text, it’s a surefire indicator that you like them. This is one of the flirty text messages that not only lets them know that they’re the one you want when you can’t sleep in the middle of the night, and also enables you to start flirting with them, and possibly even call/FaceTime them seeing as they’re supposed to be keeping you company. The fact they keep you up at night is flirty too – it implies that you just can’t stop thinking about them.
‘When do I get to see you again?’
If you and your crush have already been on a date, this is one of the perfect flirty text messages you can send as it means you can start arranging the next one. This lets them know that you’re interested, as well as showing them that you’re confident that they’re interested too – you’re not asking if you can see them, you’re asking when you can see them. This message aslo allows for you and your crush to plan something spontaneously – e.g. if your crush replies ‘right now’.
‘I dreamed about you last night’
This one is particularly flirty as it hints that something less than PG happened in your dream, and it can start a fun guessing game with your crush as they try to figure out what happened in your dream. You don’t need to tell them all the details – especially if the dream ended with your crush being eaten by a giant lobster or something.
‘Finally relaxing after a long day…how was your day?’
This is a good way to start a conversation as it lets your crush talk about themselves whilst also making them think abut you. It’s an open-ended questions, so they can’t just answer with ‘yes’ or ‘no’. and so your conversation can go from talking about your days to something more. Plus, since you’ve said you’re relaxing, this can suggest to your crush that your relaxing may be just a little bit sexy – like taking a bubble bath.
‘I bought this the other day…what do you think?’
What’s better than sending the person you like a cute selfie, whilst angling for a compliment? If they like it, you can follow this up with a cheeky ‘I guess I’d better wear it when we go out, then?’, showing them that you want to go on a date with them, and that you want to look your best for them.
What are your favourite flirty text messages to send to start a conversation? Let us know in the comments!
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