Everyone goes through life shamelessly wasting their energy on a girl who has absolutely zero interest in them. Don’t be that guy. Here are 10 signs she’s just not that into you. Seriously dude, don’t ignore them.
1. She never texts you first.
You shouldn’t be the one who is always initiating the conversation. Chances are she always has her phone around, so if she isn’t thinking enough about you to text you first, then she’s probably not feeling it. Really, she’s just not that into you.
2. You only get one-word replies.
“Good”, “Ok”, “Yeah” are always conversation killers. If she seems to always reply with those one-wonders, she’s just not that into you.
3. She always avoids seeing you or hanging out.
If you have been texting for weeks and you can’t get her to hang out, things aren’t going to work out. Look for things like “We’ll hang out soon”, “I don’t know we’ll see”, “Maybe next week” because those are some sure tell signs she’s just not that into you.
4. She always wants to bring a friend.
If you’ve invited her out, but she always wants to turn it into a group affair, it could be because she’s trying to avoid being in an intimate situation with you.
5. Something always comes up.
No matter what day or what time it is, she always has something that she suddenly has to do. If she is constantly bailing on your plans, it’s time to rethink things.
6. She doesn’t want you to meet her family and friends and it’s been months.
Meeting her family and friends is a huge step in relationships. If she doesn’t see you fit to meet them, she is clearly holding something back.
7. You always have to be the one to make the plans.
Both of you should be putting in the same amount of effort, including making the plans. If you always have to plan things out and ask her to hang out, something isn’t right. If she really was into you, she would be excited to plan things out.
8. She only texts you late at night.
If you only hear from her after 9pm, especially on the weekends, then you’re probably just her booty call. She sees you as a hookup and nothing else.
9. You never go on actual dates, just hook up.
Your dates consist of going to the bar and then going to each other’s places. Nothing more. That’s a big sign that she isn’t only into you, but just having fun and keeping things on a hookup level.
10. She pulls a disappearing act.
When you don’t see her for days, weeks or months at a time without explanation, she is just not that into you. She might be seeing other people, or simply doesn’t want to spend her time with you.