20 Sexy Messages To Send Your Significant Other To Tease Their Pants Off

Sexy messages don’t have to include nudes. As a matter of fact, some of the sexiest messages have nothing to do with nudes. They’re the messages that make you think about your partner. REALLY THINK. Not just visualize them, but think about them. 

They make you think about their voice, their touch, their smell, their kiss. They make you think about their body, the look in their eyes when they look at you.

Here are 20 sexy text messages you can send your partner to tease their pants off.

Her To Him:

I’m bored and I’m lying in bed. Wanna play Simon Says with me?

A great way to put ideas into your partner’s head. Let them imagine all the things you’re doing to yourself. They’ll be so anxious to get home to you, the day won’t go fast enough.

I can’t sleep – all I can think about is what we would be doing if you were here with me…

Oh, I love this one. It always puts me right into imagination mode! I start thinking about all the things I want to do to him! One of my FAVORITE sexy text messages.

I’m typing this with one hand because my other hand is busy…

Are you writing? Yup…was totally asked that once. Almost died laughing.

Normally, it’ll put your partner right into wondering where that hand is and what it’s doing. Should it click, they’ll start imagining scents and tastes, too. Give them something to think about until they can get to you.

Imagine we’re alone in the bedroom together – then tell me what you’re thinking.

I love when my partner tells me what they’re thinking about me when we’re in the mood. I love to hear how he loves my eyes. How he loves the way I breathe and the way he loves how my lips feel on his. 

I love hearing my partner tell me what he want s to do.

I had a VERY naughty dream last night – you were definitely there…

This is one of my favorite sexy text messages. It allows you to tell your partner the details of your subconscious. The things that you maybe didn’t even know you wanted. Your brain will fill in the details. 

It can also be the thing you blame when you come up with something they don’t wanna know!

Guess what I’m wearing right now?

Nothing. The answer is usually nothing. But definitely don’t tell your partner that. Not yet anyway. Make them go through a list of answers, even if you know they’re just playing. In the end, tell them you’re nude. Send a teasing photo to go with it.

20 Sexy Messages To Send Your Significant Other To Tease Their Pants Off

I can’t stop thinking about that time when you and I

Bring up the sexy memory of a time when the two of you were together. Whether it was a romantic moment or a spur of the moment romp in the backseat of the car, remind your partner about one of the sexiest moments of your relationship.

I’m headed to bed – Are You Cumming with Me?

The granddaddy of all sexy text messages. Tell your man you’re ready for bed with this little play on words. Put their mind right in the gutter and make sure they know exactly what it is you’re looking for when you get there!

What are you having for dinner tonight? I have an idea for dessert

Ok, so I giggled a little bit at first.  But then I went yesssss…..and my head went straight into imagination mode.

I love the way you grab my hair and push me up against a couch. Your dominance makes me hot.

For the sub/dom type relationship, this is the perfect message. It tells the dom that you enjoy letting them be in charge. That you are happy to oblige to their desires.

Him To Her:

Tonight is going to be all about you, baby. You don’t have to lift a finger. 

Let your girl know that you plan on taking care of her tonight. It turns a girl on like no other to hear her man say he’s going to take charge and do what SHE likes all night.

I can’t wait to see you so I can run my lips across your neck.

I am one of those women who completely loses my mind when a man goes after my neck. Touch, kiss, lick, it doesn’t matter. I’m down for the count. 

20 Sexy Messages To Send Your Significant Other To Tease Their Pants Off

Something as simple as kissing you makes me so fucking hard. 

Let your girl know how easy it is for her to turn you on. That just the simple act of putting your lips on hers is enough to have you busting at the zipper to be not just with her, but IN her as well. 

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Tell me exactly what you want me to do to you. In detail.

Don’t just have her tell you and then not follow through. Really listen to what she says and do it. My ex-fiancee really took into consideration what I wanted one night and put it into play. He had me completely melted. I was done. And he knew it.

I never knew what it was like to want someone this badly.

Let your girl know what she means to you. Tell her that her body does things to you that you have never felt before. 

Do you want me to make you orgasm with my tongue, hands, or cock?

Is it hot in here? Are you sure? It feels pretty warm to me. 

Give her a choice! 

An incredibly sexy text message to send to your partner!

I’m wearing those tight new boxers you bought for me. 

Give your girl the image of what you look like under your clothes. But not so much that she’s only thinking of you nude. Give her something to imagine removing with her teeth.

20 Sexy Messages To Send Your Significant Other To Tease Their Pants Off

I love the feel of your skin. It’s so soft and perfect.

I love skin to skin contact. (It’s one of my favorite ways to sleep.) Hearing my man tell me how much he enjoys it too, is a serious turn on.

I’m going to cum while thinking about you.

Now, this one caters to a certain audience. You know who you are. Don’t deny it. Some women just love to hear this. It really gets their mind going! A fabulous topic for a sexy text message.

I want to fuck you forever.

Please don’t include this in your proposal. Sexy text messages. A sexy thing to have growled in your ear. Just sexy. But reassuring your woman that she’s the only one you want for the rest of your life goes a long, long way!

What kind of sexy text messages do YOU like to receive? Share with us in the comments!

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