We’re stuck in quarantine. It sucks. Nobody can go anywhere unless it’s absolutely necessary. We are spending more time with our loved ones, whether that be with our children, our significant others, or both.
Chances are if your state is like mine, you’ve been in a statewide lockdown for over a week now. Chances are if you have a very active sex life, you and your partner are starting to run out of moves in the bedroom by now.
Either that or you’re creating a list of all the moves you’re going to try once you can finally head over to your man’s house again.
Have your man lie down—floor works best, but the bed is fine—and climb on top of him, but instead of straddling, move your legs between his legs for a sort of crouch motion. It’s like doing reverse cowgirl while keeping your legs together.
Lay on your side and have him positioned straight on, so you’re completely sideways and his thighs are on either side of you, one next to your ass and the other in between your legs.
An adapted doggy style: Arms down, ass up, but only off the mattress a few inches because you can get some muscle involved that helps you come—and your dude can reach around from behind and help you with that process. Or, obviously, you can help yourself.
The Banana Split
Your partner thrusts into you from behind as you’re on your belly with your head down. Not only does this allow for deeper penetration, but you can have them knead or spank your butt for improved orgasm. This position is great if you’re a little nervous about letting your partner see your O-face.
The Armchair Traveler
the Armchair Traveler has you on your knees and bent over, holding onto the couch arm while your partner enters you from behind. If you want to take control, you can also have your partner stay still while you thrust back into them, using the couch arm for leverage while you thrust. This angle can allow for deep penetration and your mind is free to focus on your arousal or any fantasy you choose.
The Sticky Scissor
Lie perpendicular to each other with you on your back and them facing you on their side. One of your legs goes between theirs and the other is draped over their hips. This allows their top leg to be angled so it’s pressed against your vulva while they’re inside you,” says Borowicz. “While they’re slowly pumping, you can grind up against their inner thigh to get the clit stimulation you need to come (feel free to use your hands to press their leg down against you and angle it just right…or alternatively just have them move their leg out of the way a bit and use your vibe).
Lie on your right side; your partner kneels, straddling your right leg and curling your left leg around his left side.
With this sex position, you get the deeper penetration of the doggy style while still being able to make that important eye contact. Because eye contact is IMPORTANT.
Similar to the popular Cowgirl sex position, you kneel on top, pushing off your partner’s chest and sliding up and down the thighs. But your partner helps by supporting some of your weight and grabbing your hips or thighs while he rises to meet each thrust.
This sex position puts less stress on your legs, making climaxing easier. Plus, if you’re with a guy, female-dominant sex positions delay his climax—so everyone wins. Alternate between shallow and deep thrusting to stimulate different parts of the vagina.
This Move Has No Name
No idea what it’s called. I found it by accident!
Lean back against the back of your couch with your elbow on the armrest. Swing your top leg over the back of the couch and prop yourself up on your lower knee so that you’re leaning back and using the couch as support. Have your partner put both knees by your lower knee that you’re propped up on and thrust from that position.
No name for it, just know it drove me crazy!
The Last of Our Last Sex Moves
This one isn’t really a ‘move’ so too speak, more of a tip.
Tell us what to do. Tell us where you want us, what position you want us in and, if we’re on top, how you want the speed. Be vocal. Don’t be afraid to readjust us. Move our legs to one side or the other. Move them together, if you’re looking for an especially tight fit.
Also, flip us. If we’re on the bottom and you want to reposition us, pick us up and flip us. Wrap your arms around our waist and just pick us up, damnit. Same if we’re on top and you want us on the bottom. Nothing is sexier than being physically moved by our partner. Not only are we being controlled, but we get to feel your muscles and body as you move us.
Guys, listen to your girls! They’re going to tell you what they want. They know, whether they’ll admit it or not, what they want already.
Even if they won’t say it out loud, pay attention to their cues. Listen to their breathing. Listen to moans. Watch their facial expressions. Another one that not all men think to pay attention to is where they put you. A woman will move you slightly in this direction, or that direction, so that you’re positioned just right.
They’re going to help you give them exactly what they want. You just need to listen. Give one of these moves a try, or, mix and match and create your own. You never know. You could find some new favorite sex moves!
What sex moves do you love? Have you ever accidentally come across a position that just drove you mad? Have we given you any ideas to try with your partner tonight? Let us know in the comments!
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Lucky mom of three beautiful children ages 9, 11 & 12. I graduated with a double bachelor's degree in 2015 from Ashford University. One in Journalism and Mass Communications and the second in Public Relations and Marketing.