Are you having a good time out on a date with your guy, but cannot figure out what to say next? Not very good at holding an actual conversation that can keep going for hours and hours on end? No problem!
It is widely agreed upon that people love to talk about themselves and their experiences. It is also widely agreed upon that asking questions will help you to get to know your guy better, and for your guy to get to know you better as a girlfriend. Nobody wants their date to end up being awkward, am I right or am I right?
You bet I am.
Not only will you get to know your man in no time at all and vice versa, but you will get to learn each other’s secrets.
Here are 8 of the best questions that you can ask your guy on your next date.
1. What do you wish that you were really good at? (8 Best Questions To Ask Your Guy On Your Next Date #1)
This question is for the person who is seeing someone physically for the first time alone, in a public setting. For a long time, you have seen him hang out with his friends and doing his own thing, while he has probably seen you with your friends and doing your own thing. Of course, there are some things that you know about each other through word of mouth, but it is not until you get to sit down one on one with your man that you soon to find out their personal hopes, dreams, goals, and desires for their future.
2. Would you rather leave your hometown and never be able to return again, or stay in your hometown but never be able to leave? (8 Best Questions To Ask Your Guy On Your Next Date #2)
This question is for the person who you have known for a pretty long time. You know what they are like in person – pertaining to what they like to do in their free time, what music they listen to on a daily basis, and so on and so forth. But be careful about going too deep into someone’s personal life. That type of stuff can hurt them deep down inside and the relationship won’t go as well as you hope that it would be. However, if you and your guy have known each other well to a point where you two can reveal personal things and secrets to one another, go ahead and take the risk. No one is stopping you from doing so, right?
3. What was the last show you binge-watched? (8 Best Questions To Ask Your Guy On Your Next Date #3)
Everyone has the last show that they have binge-watched during their lifetime. I know I have. If you are someone who has caught up on all of the new shows that are present on the latest entertainment watching platforms and need recommendations for new shows to watch, this is one of the best questions to ask your guy on your next date out in public. In that sense, you get to find out what he watches when he needs a cool-down from the daily stresses of the day, and maybe you’ll find something new to watch with him on your next date. Who knows, maybe you will like it as much as he does! Plus, it is a bonus if you binge-watch the same show together.
4. What is your go-to karaoke song? (8 Best Questions To Ask Your Guy On Your Next Date #4)
Let us admit it, everyone has THAT song that they sing along to when they are going on a road trip or when they are at a party and having a good time. It gives you a glimpse of his music tastes and what he listens to on a daily basis while studying, doing homework, going to the gym to get a daily workout in, and so on and so forth. Maybe you two like the same song and that song could be labeled the perfect song to define your relationship. Maybe you two can be crazy and sing many songs on the top of your lungs. It is also the perfect opportunity for a karaoke night and just be weird. Plus, it is really no hidden secret that music always brings out the best in everyone.
5. What is the biggest lesson you have learned? (8 Best Questions To Ask Your Guy On Your Next Date #5)
The one part of being in a relationship is about bringing out the best qualities in each other. The other part of being in a relationship is about knowing that they are not the most perfect human – we all cannot be ten thousand Barbies or ten thousand Ken dolls. Then that type of situation would not be normal. Everyone is going through something that no one else knows about, that is for sure. We all make mistakes and we can always learn a thin or two from other people. Of course, it may take some time for either you or your man to admit your past faults and the mistakes that you have made over the course of your lifetime, but sooner or later they will accept you for who you are, no matter what happens in life. And if he does not accept you for that, it is time to dump that boy and find someone new.
6. What is on your bucket list? (8 Best Questions To Ask Your Guy On Your Next Date #6)
It is practically no secret that everyone wants to do everything they see – whether it would be learning about the activity through word of mouth or just by seeing a post of the activity through social media. But of course, there are only 24 hours in a day and most times we do not have all the time in the world to do every single thing that you want to do! By finding out what is on your man’s bucket list and vice versa, it is definitely a great opportunity to come up with things and activities to take part in for your next date. You will also get to find out what your man likes to do and vice versa. You both will never grow bored with dating ever again and will always have a good time together doing what you both love to do!
7. If any actor or actress could play you in a movie, who would it be? (8 Best Questions To Ask Your Guy On Your Next Date #7)
Remember what I said before about people loving to talk about themselves all of the time? Well, this is one of those instances. When people watch a movie or a TV show of their choice, they always have that actor/actress that they look up to because they love their performances so much. Imagine what would happen if your favorite actor or actress played you in a movie – how cool would that be? Hey Lili Reinhart, please play me in a movie about my life someday! And Cole Sprouse, please play my future boyfriend someday!
8. What is your biggest guilty pleasure? (8 Best Questions To Ask Your Guy On Your Next Date #8)
Everyone has one huge guilty pleasure that they will never admit to anyone else, even their family. Well, this is one of those instances where people love to talk about themselves and what they like. This question kind of serves as a bonding experience between you two, which is very much needed to keep the relationship strong. And who knows, maybe his interests will grow to be your biggest guilty pleasure, too!
Which one of these 8 best questions that you might ask your guy on your next date? What are 8 of the best questions that your guy might want to ask you on your next date? Spill the tea in the comments below!
Nicole Gibson is a junior at Quinnipiac University in Hamden, Connecticut, where she is pursuing a bachelor of arts in journalism and theatre studies.