Relationships

10 Things You Should NEVER Do During Your Girlfriend’s Period

Ladies, we all know what it is like to suffer from all the awful things that come along with having a period. Weird cravings, constant bloat, heightened irritability – it’s that absolute worst. As much as we want our boyfriends to be there for us and care for us during that dreaded week of torture, they always seem to just get it wrong. For all those boyfriends out there who try hard but just can’t seem to get it right, this article is dedicated to you. Here are 10 things you should never do during your girlfriend’s period…

1. Do not “giver her some space.”

I’m going to be completely honest with you, we will probably get annoyed by something as simple as you sitting too close on the couch. But this does not mean that we want to be left alone. Sure, I need some space on the couch, but not all together. I need you to be here and console me through the pain and suffering. No boy’s nights for the next 4-7 days, we are in this together!

 

2. Do not tell her she looks “tired” (or anything similar).

This is the only time where honesty might not be the best policy. Trust me, we know that we do not look our best, but it’s temporary and right now we just need to hear how pretty we are, even though we know you’re lying.

3. Do not ask, “Is it really that bad?”

Yes, it is really that bad, and unless you have a uterus, you will never understand.

4. Do not pick a fight.

Do you really think this is the right time to argue about that insignificant incident from last week? The answer is no. We are already moody to begin with, so if you bring up something that you know will fuel the fire, be prepared for the consequences.

5. Do not come empty-handed.

It’s safe to say that if you are coming to take care of us and you don’t have some type of junk food in your hand, you might as well not come at all. Stop by the supermarket and pick up her favorite candy or Ben & Jerry’s ice cream flavor, you won’t be sorry.

 

6. Do not take what she says too seriously.

No, she does not actually think you’re a stupid boy who is never capable of doing anything right, it’s the hormones talking.

See Also

7. Do not act grossed out.

Sure, the idea of blood coming out of our body is kind of gross, we know. But acting grossed out just makes us feel worse about ourselves and frankly, doesn’t make us feel too good about you either.

8. Do not ask for anything sexual.

This is different for depending on the girl, but just air on the side of caution and don’t bring up anything sexual during your girlfriend’s period. Let her come to you.

9. Do not mention PMS.

Yes, we are PMSing but don’t you dare bring it up…unless you are ready to face the wrath.

10. Do not try and offer advice related to anything about periods.

I do not care about what you heard about exercising alleviating period cramps, I refuse to do anything that does not involve laying in my bed, eating ice cream and watching Netflix all day.

Any other advice to offer boyfriends during their girlfriend’s period? Share in the comments!

Featured image source:  /entry/group/4684373 and getrefe.
Article image sources: forums.theknot.com, akernan.wordpress.com, katsgiflibrary., , sara-ivy.blogspot.com, , , , metro.co.uk, /entry/51583318, theberry.com
Jalana Fuller

Jalana is living in the city as she completes her Junior year at Baruch College. She is pursuing a career in Public Relations, and will start a new and exciting internship with Elizabeth Arden in the Spring! Once she graduates she hopes to travel around Europe before the responsibilities of adulting catch up with her.

Recent Posts

20 Signs You Went To Long Beach High School

Everyone's high school experience can be very different depending on where you go. Here in Long Beach there are many ways to…

1 hour ago

Absolutely Everything You Need To Bring To Marist Beach

When it's the first warm and sunny day of the spring season at Marist College, the students gather on the…

5 hours ago

10 Questions We All Want To Ask The MSU CATA Drivers & Parking Police

We have all had the moment where we truly hate the CATA/parking at MSU, because lets me honest they can…

8 hours ago

The Ultimate Guide To Rushing At Penn State

So you’ve decided that you want to join a fraternity or sorority. No matter the reason, you’re in for one…

12 hours ago

10 Things You Didn’t Know About Syracuse University

Syracuse has many traditions and weird facts that you may have not known about during your time here! Here are…

12 hours ago

10 Tips To Save Space In Your Dorm Room at SJU

Move in time is just around the corner for SJU students, and it's time to start thinking about the dreaded…

16 hours ago